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How Can I Get This Guy to Not Be So Guarded?

I've been seeing this guy for about three months. The thing is, he is so emotionally closed off. There will be times that he slowly opens up. Like the other night he told me that he wanted us to stop having sex because he...

glowgirl3

Xper 6 Age: 41

What does he really want? Relationship or Single Life?

Ok, I will break it all down for you as best as I can. I've know this guy since we were in Kindergarten, we'll be 25 this year, our parents are friends and we live 8-10 min from each other. He liked me back in high...

LaurenNC84

Xper 6 Age: 42

Ex-boyfriend wants to make up & I pushed him Away

So. This is complicated. There is this guy that I'm obviously attracted to, we had several times where we talked after I had left him due to school and family (my family is like crazy, they don't want me to talk to anyone...

Anonymous

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Those early stages: taking it slowly, "exclusive but not official", how to tell if it is going somewhere?

Hi all, Situation is this. I met a guy online, we chatted as mates and I invited him over for a meal as he was interested in vegetarianism, and I am, so yeah... I cooked for him one Monday just over 2 weeks ago. We...

just4clarity

Xper 5 Age: 39

I have been burned and had no idea it was coming. How do I let him know it hurts?

I began dating a guy after meeting him online and talking to him over the phone for a couple of weeks. He was very interested in meeting me in person but I wanted to take it slow and make sure that he got to know me and...

Anonymous

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Warning Signs You're Dating A Loser!

1. Rough Treatment "The Loser" will hurt you on purpose. If he or she hits you, twists your arm, pulls your hair, kicks you, shoves you, or breaks your personal property EVEN ONCE, drop them. Male losers often begin...

shuba

Xper 4 Age: 37

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How do you overcome fear of being with someone new?

I have stop seeing anyone since moving to a new country. It's been six years since I seen anyone. I had three bad relationships all of which ended up pretty badly and none which I am friends with.(cheated, left for a new...

hiding

Xper 5 Age: 43

Sigh... I just broke up with my Boyfriend and confused... :-(

I've been with my Boyfriend for 2 1/2 years and now. We kind of started out weird because we were both in a baaad relationship beforehand, and when we met, we just CLICKed. (We were in a really good relationship btw.)...

jaikovsky

Xper 4 Age: 45

Ex trying to make me jealous? Or does he just like sexin' me haha.

I've noticed some very similar posts to this but here is my situation. Basically my ex and I have been in a friends with benefits relationship for a few months now. We've sent sexy pictures and he's even sent me a very....

Anonymous

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The Other Woman

I need honest opinions. I am 24 years old and for the past year I have been having sex with a man who has a girlfriend and who is 12 years older than me. From the beginning I knew that he had a girlfriend. I am not proud...

libralady02

Xper 3 Age: 41

Am I hurting both of us?

Recently, I've been having sexual relations with a girl I've been dating off and on for the past three years. We're really good friends, I guess now with benefits, but I think that I still have feelings for her. I'm more...

Anonymous

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Could the man I'm having an affair with love and care about me or feeling guilty about cheating on his wife

I have been having an affair with a guy who calls me friend. I know his wife cause he has filled me in and it turns out that we attend the same church.Sex is great between me and this man but every time we have sex he...

Anonymous

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Why is all this happening to me?

My boyfriend. I love him tons! But I think he's insecure. I'm 98% sure. And it SUCKS. He's been having problems with my past ever since he heard about it. He asked, I answered. chaos! He knows one "ex" (he wasn't a...

ilovelovelove

Xper 3 Age: 37

What is he looking to accomplish, should I be hurt, and should I react?

I just broke up with my boyfriend last weekend after attempting to get through some issues we had been having (I got drunk and acted like a meathead -- this hurt him). I could tell he was miserable. He wasn't calling as...

Anonymous

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Is the man I'm having an affair with falling in love with me?

This ones for the boys. I have been having an affair with a very sweet and nice man (not my normal type). I pursued him and he was very hesitant about getting involved with me, as I'm married. We have been seeing each...

Anonymous

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Why do players have to play on you with other girls?

Well I've like this guy since I've ever met him and I'm pretty sure I love him! He says he loves me but doesn't want to got out with me because he doesn't want to get hurt because the girls before me have ruined his...

Jordy-3

Xper 5 Age: 36

Are we friends, fwb, more than friends or stuck somewhere in between?

I’ve been seeing a guy for 7 months. In May he moved back home (we both graduated college). We started out as friends but by the time he left we were having sex. We contact each other in some way almost every day. In...

SweetGirl22

Xper 5 Age: 40

What should I do?

I have been on here before for advice & have given my own. Anyways I have been FWB with this guy for over 2 years now. We dated but he broke up with me. He really didn't give me a reason. But after a month of still...

Anonymous

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