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Hello, I'm with a guy, I know since when I came to my neighbourhood. He's my ex's friend.
So me are friends with benefit, we said we don't want anything serious. I feel he's falling in love with me, but he doesn't want to accept it, I know that. Me I like so much but I can't tell him because he doesn't want and if I do we will break up the relationship, and I don't want that.
So I've been talking to him, we talk all day, lol. He's some who doesn't express his feeling, but he says he loves me, but don't want anything serious, that it's hard for him to say that, but he know I'm never going to hurt him.
I don't know if he's afraid of falling in love or I don't know, what do you guys think?

we are really close, I share everything with him. he's kept me at a distance lately because he knows what's going on with us i think. he was in a really bad really long relationship where he got cheated on, he never talks about it, but I have heard from his friends how much it messed him up, and it's not another girl that's causing his issues with being with me. we act like we're together, hold each other in public, he buys dinner, we go on long walks just talking, making each other laugh. but he's not ready for a relationship, he told me he felt like he wasted so much of his life on one that got so fucked up. He is very respectful of me, and is so polite around my family and friends. I don't really know what to say to him about it, I haven't been through anything like what he has. I really want to be with him and he says it isn't because he can't see us together or see himself falling in love with me (I asked him if he could fall in love with me and he said yes) He's understanding when I start acting like I can't do this, but we've fought about it and he has accused me of messing with his emotions which I completely haven't. I love being with him so much but I don't know what to do about this.

Long story short I was stupid and blame myself for falling in love for my best guy friend, he knew i had feelings for him and he even told me i care about you more than you know and he gave me long hugs and stared a lot when i'm not noticing.
4 months of him knowing i had feelings he kept showing he was interested but didn't make it into a serious relationship.
Last night i just found out he has a girlfriend and asked him since he is taken now, will we still be able to hang out and told i wouldn't be sad or anything. His exact response was, " of cousre! Nothings changed between us, I found someone i really liked, but im still invested in us.
I told him i was happy for him but deep inside i was hurt and he wants to see me again as soon i get back to town but i don't know if i can do this.