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I'm 25, and have slept with two men. One was a horrible fling/casual dating, and one is my current boyfriend of three years. I'm quite convinced I want to marry this man, and for personal and emotional reasons, I am definitely not the type who would be able to sleep with someone I'm not seriously dating or in love with again. My boyfriend is aware of this past and is ok with it, and is also committed to our relationship. I do hope I'll never have to find another and I love him to bits! The other day, I was discussing the issue of numbers with my girlfriends, and a man overheard me (which was odd since it was a busy venue and I was speaking quietly... so I thought at least). He said that I am clearly a slut and that I don't deserve my boyfriend. Apparently, "by the age of 30, even, you (I) should only have had 1 boyfriend as a sexual partner, and should still be with him! Two makes you (me) a complete whore." He was in his late 20s or early 30s. So I guess I'm curious... what do you consider be too many men/the number at which you stop considering a girl marriage material? Or is it not solely a number game? Curious! Thanks!

I'm a girl, he's a guy. We're police officers. We've been best friends & work partners for 7 years. He's been with me through a divorce, a near fatal car accident & then the birth of my child, I've been with him through a divorce, the depression that followed & recently, a marriage. He's the most loyal, honest, moral man i know, until now. The thing is, we've always been respectful, he's always been attractive to me but I never acknowledged it & he did the same. For 7 years we were perfect sibling like friends. Well, last year he was drinking & we were texting, as usual & he told me he used to think about marrying me & that he's been attracted to me since the day we met. He began to name times, conversations & events that were significant to him. He told me he wished we would have gotten together & he regrets not speaking up. I was but overwhelmingly flattered. I confessed that I felt the same. Since then we have engaged in a fantasy "what if" relationship, complete with sexting. The issue im having is this, he remarried his ex wife a week after he confessed to me. They are trying to have a baby. I am in a ltr with a man who is not very good to me but I've never cheated on him or considered it until now. My best friend wants to have an affair with me. I want him, I would love to be with him because we love each other & want each other so much. I dont know how we could be detached though & I'm not sure who I'm more concerned about, him or me. I realize how selfish this is, we both agree that the right outweighs the wrong. If we do this am I going to lose my best friend? If we don't do this will he find someone else? I'm confused, kind of.