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So, this girl caught my eye. She is rad as. Saw her while I was getting food and spoke to her for a few minutes. Then she ended up working at this store I went to the same night and I'm like "If this isn't a sign from God I don't know what is" so I got her number and I picked her up on Halloween to chill with me and my friend.

He ended up leaving so we walked to my place and she took her shoes and shit off and got in my bed. I was like "Are you staying over?" and she asked me if it was okay and I told her it was. So we stood up the next few hours watching tv and she had her head on my shoulder and I had a few opportunities to kiss her but I didn't because I didn't want to have sex the first night we hung out.

Sooo, we cuddle all night, she goes home in the morning back to her friends house before her mom finds out she isn't where she said she'd be.

We text.

Then yesterday she sends this: "It's a pain in the butt if I have to lie to my parents of where I'm going! Also just bear with me for a while bc my mom is crazy since what happened with my ex"

They broke up 2 weeks ago, he was abusive and constantly bothers her.

So, we talk about her mom a few more minutes and I'm like "She would love me" and she said "She definitely would." and all this.

Then a few texts later she's like "As of now I hope you know I don't want to be more than friends really."

And she is still expecting me to hang out with her and her friend on friday. What?

Why say "bear with me for a while" then? Why spend the night with me?

If you dated a guy for just a month, with roughly 5 dates in total and very little texting and no phone calls, but still considering every date to go very well with good chemistry. Add a few kisses and hugs but no sex.
Circumstances are you need to go different ways (Long Distance relationship for example, or if the guy had to go to war or something)
So in order to not put each other through too much pain, you decided to break up and initiate the NO CONTACT strategy, then talk later to evaluate the possibility of getting back together later when circumstances are more favorable.

The flaw in this plan, is that the NO CONTACT contract has no clear duration agreed upon by both parties, first to break the rule kind of decides for the other. It's been two weeks, and I feel calm and composed again, ready to discuss the next step, but I'm scared of finding that she's still affected. She did seem quite the romantic and sensible woman... but it's been just a month worth of dating.

Opinions?
How long before you'd get over the break up of such a short relationship?
I promised her we would talk and consider the next step, but I'm getting over her and if I wait too long, I might just lose the spark, and then she'll be shattered all the same.