Search Results: is she interested in a commitment

Ok so we have been seeing each other a while but mainly in his bedroom, so when i said if he really wanted to get to know me he's going to have to meet me outside of his bed, he agreed, but failed to confirm plans. He said "Don't hold me to it because i don't like commitments and sometimes bail" The hell i wasn't asking for a commitment just time to get to know each other which is what HE said he wanted when we first met. but i was sensing him losing interest so i was pulling back too... I am only giving what he puts out for me to take. I am not out to get used again. So i told him "Lol then I get to bail too. You better have a good excuse. To be honest when I
read that I hear. "you aren't important enough to me that I will keep my plans
with you, because something better could come up" so this I what I am going to
do. If someone makes definite plans with me on wensday with a time a place which
probably will happen then I will do that. Like I said it's whoever wins the
race. Don't like it sorry but I will not be treated like that I have standards.
I'm only giving as much as you do. Is that fair? " he said it wasn't fair and i am wondering if he is even worth my time at this point? Why would he do this? Guys please help me, your species perplexes me lol.

I've been talking to this guy for a about a month now. He's unlike any other guy I've talked to before and is very respectful and kind-hearted. I don't usually date because of how bad I've been treated in the past (which he knows about) but he treats me like a princess when we're together in person. We're both always so busy but he's even busier than I am so I hardly see him. I haven't seen him in over a week and he hardly texts me back anymore, now that he's further into his graduate studies. He said he was too busy to hang out a couple of days ago and said "how about tomorrow instead?" so I said sure. The next day I didn't hear from him at all, I was pretty upset about it but didn't want to come off too strong by telling him. He finally sent me a text later that night saying he was busy but didn't at all address blowing me off or apologize. As if it never happened. But just when I think he's lost interest he'll say or do something (online though..) that will throw me off again. When we started talking he was really communicative and asked me out a lot, but for over a week now I've been the only one really trying to initiate conversation or to get him to take a break to hangout. Not that I think it makes a difference but he's introduced me to his friends already who get along with me so well, and his family knows about me already. I give him a lot of space and even stayed silent all weekend thinking he'd message me to see what was up, but nope, not a single text or call. He is all about taking things slow and we've even discussed "where we stand" which is that we're just getting to know each other and going on dates but not in a relationship. When we had this talk he said he was so relieved that I didn't see us as a couple yet.. I think he may be scared of commitment. I can't help but to feel I'm over thinking this though because although his behavior & responsiveness has changed a lot, we still aren't really "in a relationship" just dating. What are your opinions?

I went to meet a guy, my friend. I like him but he wants to kiss n touch me but doesn't say anything about his interest in me? Does it show he loves me or is he interesting to just have fun by kissing me?
(I didn't allow him to do anything bcz I believe this should be done after marriage or any commitment )