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Im a good looking guy with social anxiety so im off socially, girls get excited when i approach them and are really inviting. They actually try to work with me when im struggling to try to say what i want to say while guys would just look at me weird and not say anything. And i usually get sexual signals and advances from them after a little bit of being around each other throughout the semester. And they get excited when i ask them to hangout.

The only thing that changes it is when my social anxiety makes me appear by accident either creepy, a douche (or too douchey for her), a loser, or painfuly insecure (if thats not the same thing as a loser). It doesn't happen a lot even though im far from being "cool". And its usually the attractive ones that are the nicest and cut me the most slack. If any girls are cliquey towards me or think low of me because im slow or socially off its not the hot girls, its the ugly ones that are. Im not sure why but 90 percent of the time thats whos doing it when it happens.

I think people who complain about approaching girls and girls being the ones making the decision, which is almost always rejection, just aren't attractive. I've heard girls say they get annoyed when guys keep hitting on them in clubs but they wouldn't care if they were cute.

The only thing i agree with is that its a little annoying that when both of you are showing signs of interest the girl almost never makes the first move. But it doesn't stop me from doing it its just annoying.

And for the good looking guys who always get rejected, i feel like youd have to be socially awkward in the way that made you appear either creepy, too much of a douche, or a loser to make a girl who was interested in you lose interest and maybe even play around with you.

Or your personality was that bad. But trust me, from my personal experiences if she found you attractive, it has to be pretty bad for her to lose interest like

I'm going to college in 9 days, nine freaking days I'm so excited, and they have opportunities for greek life and shit.

Now I plan on joining a fraternity but definitely not my freshman year. Sophomoe year, however, I plan on it. But I might do it my freshman year if it's worth it.

Is it even worth it though? Like I'm outgoing enough, so meeting new people and making friends shouldn't be too difficult. I plan on doing lots of clubs already and joining organizations, with my main motivation being something more to put on a sheet when I apply for graduate school. Also, I wanna meet people! My personality is apparently a huge reason why I get along with tons of different groups, like I don't judge you so long as you don't judge me and we can be buddies like you see on Barney or whatever (okay not that close, but get me?). I wanna party too, cause it's college and I should have some fun. I am also living in dorms, if that's even relevant.

The downsides are drinking of course, I heard there's LOTS of that. I also can't deal with doing stupid, like really stupid, shit. I also can't deal with the types of guys that use a girl, and I am told many guys in fraternities do that. And, finally, I heard it's like you can't do shit without the guys most of the time, like you're both committed and stuck with them almost 24/7 and I can't deal with that.

So with all that being said, should I go for it anyway? And what are some tips for a freshman entering?