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I had a new relationship to a foreign european man for two weeks now. He is handsome , good body and charming.

I have been fool twice before by Guys who just used me for sex by my own race through their manipulation ( like only until 3 dates) and now I decided to have a relationship with a foreign man.

On our first date , it was undeniably that we are attracted to each other and he was inviting me to his house but I refused first.

On our second date, He went with me in my staycation in a resort hotel. I was attracted to him and we mutually agreed to have sex together and also relationship. But I saw girls chatting him but I don’t mind them

On our third date , we fought because he was mad why I am still in online dating site and I cannot date in valentines because of work. He blocked me and I immediately went into his house and brought him a cake. He was not in house that time and went outside to buy food with his motorbike. It was raining that time and so he return to his house to meet me and he was really wet and worried. He then kissed me and hugged me. And something again happened to us. But still I saw girls chatting him which he denied that are only friends

On our fourth date, we are planning to date together outside. But he is asking a favor from me. He wants to borrow 15,000 for his house rent.

He no longer have money and also I think he was not lying because all his ATM accounts are already empty or blocked when we tried to withdraw a money on a bank.

He is an unfortunate foreigner whose money were spent for nothing. I don’t know if I should help him. I already paid 6000 for his health insurance

I am afraid to make a mistake again , he was already my third sex and I want to make our relationship work. I want only to give myself to him and no more to anyone.

Should I lend him money? What should I do?

My hubby again made fun of me infront of my Mom. This is the second time he has done this year. He said to my mom "on Sundays she keeps sleeping till 12 pm and Il be doing laundry and get groceries". It's true I sleep till 12 pm on Sundays because I have late night sex with him and he makes me tired. I can't say to Mom that i wake up late Because of sex. And the laundry and groceries thing is a total lie he told. Mom was poking at me and saying "total lazy girl U are, Sunday also should be a working day for u" and he was sitting and smiling. Mom totally backing him. While driving back i didn't talk to him and he was teasing me by saying "your Mom and i have made funship (friendship) 😵 , you can't break it". Then i was like "why u lie and make fun of me in front of her"? He was like "your cartoon , that's why" and then he laughs. Is he taking me for granted?

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So this guy and I started talking around 8 months back. After meeting for the first time, he used to text me a lot and kept asking me to meet again. Also, he lives an hour away from my place so whenever we met we always chose a place that was close to me and he would drive till there for around 40 minutes amd then drop me home in the end. So on the second date we told we like each other. And in the car we made out and shit while he was dropping me home. After that he was pursuing me still and used to initiate conversation everytime and kept asking me to meet, but I was feeling a bit odd cause we made out when we weren't even dating. Anyway we finally met for the third time after 2 months. But on the third date everything was perfect he kept saying I was looking nice and all. He also paid the bill. He never let me pay in all the 3 dates. But then we got too drunk that night and while he was dropping, we parked the car somewhere and started making out and then decided to have sex cause he had condoms But since I'm a virgin I'm a bit tight so we couldn't do it. And after that he got sad but I was like it doesn't matter. he texted me a few times after that. But after a while he kind of stopped talking. Then he texted after 20 days and I didn't open his text for 2 days on purpose cause I was mad at him. He had written "Hey, free to talk?". when I replied he was like "just wanted to ask what headspace you're in and everything". I didn't reply to that cause I didn't know what to say. But after 2 weeks I texted him and he was like "I wanted to talk to you about it tbh" and then I ignored him for a bit to act cool about it and I said "what's up" and he still hasn't opened my message. He didn't even wish me on my bday even though I had told him about it a few days before. So right now I'm thinking if I messed up or he just never really cared about me and whether I should move on or not.