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Will try to make this quick, settling a debate. Desperation is unattractive blah blah blah. But when you try to psychoanalyze why it's an unattractive feature, which do you think it is out of the 2 options given above?

Is it unattractive b/c it shows inferiority from the pursuer, since they wouldn't be desperate if they could get what they want?

Or is it unattractive b/c it makes the pursued target think the pursuer will take anything and therefore the target doesn't think they themselves are special to the pursuer?

Thanks!

I've been dating my girlfriend for a while now and we've always been absolutely crazy about each other and we recently had a conversation in which she's told me that she doesn't even want to talk to other people because it's draining to her and she literally really only wants me in her life. She just wants me and her career in her life. She's educated and will be making great money. She's obsessive and clingy to me and she's naturally introverted. She's not socially awkward or mentally weak or anything but she just wants me in her life and really only wants me as her only friend. She's fine with me socializing and going out. She's giving me all of herself and placing all of her dependency on me willingly. She's trusting me to take care of her with all this power she is giving me. She's very submissive and she is also extremely attractive lol. I honestly feel like the luckiest guy in the world and it makes me feel more masculine and confident. I feel like all men would rather have this but they're settling for what modern women will give them.