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So I've been with my boyfriend on and off for 9 months. he's my first everything and we have our ups and downs... Broke up about 4 times 😔 But we always seem to get back with each other bc we really love each other a lot. Anyways, he recently got in touch with an old friend from facebook who is really pretty and a year younger than me. In the past they have done a lot of crazy things together and he says she's the female version of him, while im the complete opposite of him. But he said he likes that about me the most how im nothing like him. Anyway, he told me he met up with her a few days ago.. i was kinda if-y about it but he assures me its just friendship. They never had anything between theem by the way. Anyway, he asked if i would be ok if he went kayacking with her one day and i said its up to him. He offered me to go too, but i know i will only be the third wheel in their little date so i said no. I don't know what to do or feel about this situation... I feel her as a threat and that he finds her attractive and has so much in common with her that he'll leave me😥 or cheat and have me stringing along... Advice?

Ok soi was the one that broke up with him. He gave me the option beause he was going away to basic trainging and i didn't think i could handle it. Wile he was away i kinda shut my feelings off didn't really send letters to himor tell him i missed him bc it was just to much to handle. He started dating someone else when he was away and i got mad and freaked a bit but he said just bc im dating her doesn't mean she filled the void of where you were. However i was still angery. When he got back I was still mad and the first time we met up didn't go well bc I got all my anger out. Then he started hanging out with another girl again and i finally woke up. I said I thought we were goig to try and fix things and then he said how are we going to do that if you say you dont trust me. I told him I wanted to trust him. We saw each other a few time ended up hooking up after we did I asked him if he was still talking to other people he said not really I'm playing the fade away game. Then a few weeks go by and i ask again and he says no im not really seeing other people. However I know he was still hanging out with girls he but told me just bc I'm hanging out with girl doesn't mean I'm hooking up with them. His response was I still have girls I used to talked to that I'm friends with still. Then he said I still like you and was happy when we were together and can see us being happy again but He said he needs time and for me to be paitent. We hangout every other week. I can't tell if he's just taking time to figure out exactly what he wants or if he is just stringing me along or using me. He told me up front before that if he saw no chance of us working again he would have told me up front. He hasn't really lied to me and has been pretty honest with me about everything. Do you think he evenchually want to gt back together just not right now? He has told me he's missed me in person never oer text though and is distant over text but is that bc he's scared or needs.

I find it would be awkward to keep someone you never met even once on fb just so you can spy on each other. Everyone i have on my fb i have met them at least once. I find people love to just take advantage to see what your doing but make no serious effort to meet you in person to hang out. Im really talking about my crush , i feel he's stringing me along, making me think he might like me, its been a year since we started talking and all he did was flirt, call me cute names but never wanted to meet up. I mean at least tell me you dont see me in that way n stop leading me on. i asked him out few times n he would say ill let u know but doesn't. We met on pof. I cancelled my profile because its not working, i find so many people are time wasters on it. Especially this guy :(.

So I have started talking to this guy and then we went out on a date and made out at the end. We have been talking for almost 3 weeks and only hung out once, moslty because i was out of town for a week. He is a self proclaimed "bad texter"and sometimes takes hours to respond but he always does. He goes to school until 1:30 then he starts work at 3 until 9 everyday. He always texts me before school and then inbetween school and work and most of the time after work. He keeps hinting at hanging out but he won't pull the trigger and sometimes it takes him a long time to respond to texts. So is he just taking so long because he's stringing me along or is it because he is generally too busy for me?