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The hotter the girl, the smaller the heart?

We all have seen, heard and maybe even experianced what kinda people a**holes, cheaters and players are. Guys who walk in and out of girls lives, when they want something from a girl. But this topic is not focusing on those pathetic loosers and users. Its focusing on girls who have exactly the same traits as these guys, and maybe this conversation can help people to get real, stay strong and enlighten hope instead of continue-sly getting stepped all over the place.

GUYS:

What are your worse experiences of girls coming into your life out of the blue, filling it with hope and before you know it they dissapear like ash in the wind into the arms of another guy?

How many times you have noticed attractive girls being so self centered that they can't even wish back merry Xmas or say thank you when you make the effort of trying to cheer them up when they down?

Have you been in real friends of one of the top girls, and heard all the awful sh*t, and noticed the difference in their voice tone when they talk sh*t about behind their back and face to face?

Have you ever wondered how fast people guys and girls change for the worse when they make it to the big times?

Out of how many of the top 10 hottest girls you have encountered in your life, are about giving back the kindness they have received from the world around them, like helped out others when they were in need?

GIRLS

How can one nice guy turn a bad girl into a good girl?

How to turn a lifetime of failure into a once in a lifetime success?

GIRLS and GUYS

Hope you understand that the more I meet bad guys or girls, the more it makes me despise the entire human race. MY apologies for all who find this topic too harsh, but I am just filled with anger, hate and jelousy. I don't want to become a bad guy, I really don't but hope you all understand the pain I am going through.

Add Astra Per Aspera & clear the way, for all mankind

I went out to the mall today. Just went there to get a shirt and leave but then I told myself I would approach a girl today. Here are the two situations:

1) In the mall as I was leaving I saw this amazing girl. Almost when you see "the one". I waited until she walked into a store, waited a minute and walked in...but she was leaving right then. She was with a friend. I said excuse me and said how it might be random, blah blah blah, and it was pretty rough on my part. I stuttered a little because I've never done such a random approach before. I asked her if she wanted to grab lunch sometime and she said "i don't know" and "nobody has ever done this before" and "I don't even know you". On the way home I thought of amazing ways to respond to what she said, but at the time I said random sh*t or was a little too nervous to think clearly so nothing great came out. But she asked where I lived at which I'll take as a good sign? She wasn't saying much and I think it's because she was either nervous because it was the first time or because she was with her friend. Or both. As I said I had to go after like a minute, I said my name and said it was nice to meet her as I gave her a note with my name/number. She walked away as she told me her name also. And she immediately started talking to her friend.

2) Same type of thing. This time it was at a bagel place. I ordered and then this other girl working there was the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. No joke. I was just standing there and she asked how my day was going. I told her and I mentioned my work and she then asked where I worked. But when I asked if she knew what that was, she said how the other person could ring me up. So I walked away, got to my car and said f*** it, I'm going back. I again wrote my number/name on a note and gave it to her. But this time, I was short, clear, and to the point. No stuttering or anything. When I gave it to her, she looked down at it and smiled. I said I had to get going to hang out with some friends, said my name and I saw her name on her tag so I said "Alright ____, I hope to hear from ya soon."

So they were honestly the two most beautiful girls I've seen. It was crazy. Both were around my age too. (I'm 19, not 20something like my profile says). So what do you think? Will girl 1, 2, both, or neither call/text me? If you want any additional details, just ask! I'm a moderately decent looking guy. Not god like, but above average for sure. Good body, just a little skinny, but I'm relatively tall. That's just physical traits... if they get to know me, they'll see the real part of me that stands out...my personality :)

SO MANY PEOPLE talk about what they want in a guy or girl.

The reason I asked this question because people talk about what they want in a partner quite frequently on this site...

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...to the point of deluding their expectation into wanting some fictional person that doesn't exist and doesn't have any flaws, which is unrealistic because we are all human beings and we're imperfect.

Thinking about what flaws you WILL accept and tolerate in a guy or girl, physically and personality-wise, as well as the positives you want, will create a more REALISTIC outlook in dating / intimacy / relations.

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EVERYONE thinks about the positives they want in their partner.

So my question is...have you ever seriously pondered the negative traits in a guy or girl that you will be able to tolerate?

Please vote and reply as much as you like. Thanks for answering! 8-)