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My ex boyfriend and I broke up
We got into an argument before he broke it off
We have been constantly arguing about things (mainly because of my trust issues due to my first relationship) and I think the last argument was the final straw for him
The day he broke it off, he told me:
"Its not going to work out, I dont think we are right for each other, Im not happy anymore in the relationship"
But ever since the break up, he's been contacting me every week and wants to hang out to places every week
he's always the one initiating everything.
I don't.
When we talked about the break up yesterday, he said to me:
"I can't be in a relationship right now. I dont want to be with anyone. I need to focus on my future career. I want to be a police. I have to do full time studying and training and have to go up north to their academy. I won't have much time for you and can't give you the full attention you want. I dont want to upset you and disappoint you"
Does this seem legit or just an excuse?
We were together for 1 and a half years

So I have a boyfriend who is so sweet and innocent he’s just lovely. However In the past with his ex, his so called friends started chatting shit about him saying to her that he cheated or started flirting with other girls. As soon as he told me this I suddenly got shivers down my back because I know that in the past I’ve had major trust issues with guys after one cheated on me. I trust him but not 100% for this reason. Is that reasonable? Should I be worried?

So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4years. There has been cheating and trust issues along the way. Well we recently relocated to another state with his family...(yes I have no family here 😔) so for the past couple of months things have been going downhill we don’t take pictures together we are hardly having sex and we argue a lot. He’s been saying he needs more “privacy” I admit he asked me did I want the password to his phone and I told him no and he’s been holding on to that ever since and won’t give it to me or if he does give it to me he’ll turn around and change it. I can’t say that he’s cheating because I have no proof but something is not right with him, yet he tells me he loves me and wants us to be together if I ask him but it seems like he’s not fully here, if that makes any sense. I love him so much and I want us to work but I feel like I’m not the love of his life anymore and I’ve tried talking to him about it but he gets angry and we end up fussing most of the time. He says he’s tired of repeating himself but his words and actions don’t match.