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I don’t why I can’t live him even if he clearly treats me bad. He admit he is a player and jokingly say to me, you are a victim.

He ask me to pay for foods, signed up for loans, pay for tickets, medical, gasoline, cigarettes/loads. He never gave me a thing or even just a flower. He got mad if I cannot help him financially and start calling me irresponsible! Or cheap! Fucking idiot.

He fucked other people in our rented house while I am at work, just strangers he even just met online dating sites. He rejected me sex a lot of times and making me crave for it. He was mad when I sell his old things that he no longer use, he told me sell your body, not my things!

I once met his ex girlfriend and she told me you are so pathetic to be having a relationship with him. She told me he is gonna treat you bad if you are already useless. He also cheated to her and even beaten her up

until, such time I found my ex cheating on me and having another girlfriend. And he said I admit I fool you. And said, I never love anyone. If he never love anyone, how come he had so many gf’s like more than 20 in the past?

So it’s been going on two weeks now that my boyfriend spends 12+ hours playing video games. Now I’ve asked his brothers and their girlfriends and I guess it‘s a pretty normal thing around here to always be playing video games. No one is working right now so there isn’t much to do. The reason I’m upset is simple. He plays video games from 8PM the night before til 8AM the next morning. He sleeps til 3PM, we take a walk, he has dinner with me and spends an hour or so with me and is back on by 8PM. And it’s this vicious cycle. I normally get upset, but not upset to the point that I want out. But today, he pushed it. Yesterday he slept til 6PM, ruining not only our day but the last day his whole family is in town together. When he finally woke up, we all had dinner and by 8PM he was back on the game. It is 11:30AM and he JUST went to bed. And only bc I yelled at him and threaten to call his boss since he’s going to work at 4PM and it’s unsafe for him to work without sleep. Then he expects to come home from work at midnight and already told his gamer friend he’d be on at 1AM to quest. I’m so angry bc it’s like he never fucking spends time with me, he never sleeps next to me, he ruins our day and the bit of time we actually get to spend with his family, and on top of all this? He just yelled at me saying I’m negative and I’m the reason he doesn’t want to come to bed and how he’s a grown man and gets to decide what to do with his time, etc. Like somehow by victimizing himself, I’d understand why he games. No! Instead it makes me want to leave bc what the fuck is the reason for me to stay? I am so angry but I need to know, do I even have the right to be angry? What should my next move be?

He cheated on a great girlfriend (in Sept of last year) and things haven't been the same since. He admitted she was the best girl ever but he still cheated.

She was both a store manager and great cook. Many times she would go out of her way to prepare one of the many dishes and desserts the same way his late grandmother used to make. She ate whatever he wanted.

He regrets ever cheating. Things aren't the same. They don't speak every day, she locks herself in her room sometimes and only prepares food for herself, what she likes. She isn't baking anything anymore, is distant and doesn't say ''I love you'' anymore. He wishes things were back to normal again, that he'll do anything and work hard to gain back her love and trust. Or should he break up now? Their relationship looks almost dead by now.