Search Results: Afraid to commit

Yeah, this is kind of another "which guy is better" question, but bear with me, it might be interesting.

Both guys are amazing in different ways, and both have their flaws. I'm 19, and am graduating from college this spring (yeah, way early.)

Guy one is someone who I was super good friends with, but he liked me and it didn't work out at the time, so I haven't been in contact with him for a while. I'm thinking of trying to contact him again, if only for his friendship. Guy 2 is someone I met a little over a month ago, we kissed, and we've been talking ever since but he's in a different state. So here are details:

Guy 1--6'4", blond, slim/average build, 21.

PROS:

-Super great conversationalist. Never lets it get boring.

-We understand how each other thinks.

-We're involved in the same kind of activities.

-Not afraid to commit.

-Super affectionate.

-Supportive of stuff I do/think/want.

-Brilliantly smart and hilariously witty.

CONS:

-Has depression, used to struggle with self-harm.

-Due to that, tanked in college and dropped out this year.

-Doesn't have a plan for his life.

-Selfish in bed

-Selfish in general...he has a history of hooking up with girls who are dating other guys.

-Needy and doesn't listen when I tell him I'm busy.

-Was a player in high school--and possibly still now, doesn't have actual sex though.

Guy 2--5'10", dark hair, average build, 19, sophomore in college.

PROS:

-Only kissed 3 girls ever (including me)--pretty sure he's a virgin.

-Extremely kindhearted and cares about people.

-Has high standards, makes good choices.

-Fun and easy to be around (at least as far as I know)

-Smart and does well in school--engineering major

CONS:

-Not a good communicator, and is bad at texting.

-We run out of things to talk about, it feels awkward.

-He's more of a jock, I'm more artsy, we don't care about the others' interests much.

-Kind of a flirt with all girls.

-Appears flaky sometimes...I can't tell if he's telling the truth.

-Seems to want to take things really slow.

I'm sure there are more things I could list...but anyway, which do you think would be a "smarter" choice? I know people are just going to say "do what your heart tells you" but really. I've had feelings for both of them at different times. Maybe I won't be with either, but both, I feel, are something a little more special than average. What are your opinions of these two guys?