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Around a month ago my boyfriend Craig went on his work night out. He ended up getting fairly drunk, and had texted me at 11pm when he was on the way home from the city.

Around a week later when I met up with him, he told me he hadn’t gone straight home and had went to a nightclub in our hometown once he got back from the city and partied until 3am - getting even more drunk. So, I got suspicious about why he didn’t text me to tell me about the nightclub part - as I assumed he’d be going straight home.

Then, he added in that he had to apologise for his behaviour to one of his female colleagues (Laura) that Monday at his work. I assumed he’d done this face to face, but only more recently he told me he sent her an apology via his work email. This got me suspicious as well, because I thought why the heck does he feel he needs to apologise to Laura... because anytime I asked him why he felt embarrassed, he just said it was because he’d gotten so drunk - but why apologise if you did nothing wrong and were just having fun.

He stills seems pretty embarrassed with himself about the night out - but when I tried to question him about why he felt the need to apologise to Laura and asked if he was interested in her, he got really insulted and annoyed that I thought so lowly of him.

What he doesn’t seem to get is that I feel pretty annoyed he chose to visit this club with his work colleagues knowing Laura would be there, and then went and stood with Laura and her friends. I’d say for a man who is not single he should have headed home after coming back from the city - and not went clubbing til 3am. I’m so agitated about this and he still doesn’t see why I’m annoyed.

He claimed he didn’t want to even mention it because he knew I’d react badly. But if I’d had a straight up honest truth of what happened the day after the night out I wouldn’t have been annoyed (or as annoyed at least).

What do you think?