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Ok I was going out with this guy who was also my best friend for about a year, before we started going out he had been on and off dating another girl for a while. When we were together she made up a lot of stuff about him and rang him up crying down the phone and stuff but he didn't tell me until I had heard from a mutual friend of the ex, he was on vacation with the boys in Cabo and he kissed another girl but I stood by him as after he told me he seemed so genuinely upset and I trusted it wouldn't happen again. A few months later I heard that his ex was saying that he rang her up drunk one night saying he still loved her while he was in cabo (he had always told me he had never loved her and that he had only ever loved two people me and his first proper girlfriend) anyway I ended up breaking up with him a few months after that not for a particular reason just I wasn't feeling the same as I used to but I still loved him as my friend, he acted absolutely devastated and I was so upset at the thought of him being hurt and did my best to be as nice as possible..A few weeks later he is back with his ex and I just don't know what to think its been a few months and they are still dating not going out properly but I just don't know what to think! Why would someone go back to a person like that if he hadn't still cared about her through our relationship is how I feel. I broke up with him so I feel like I can't say anything but it kills me seeing them together especially since she is such a bitch to me when she sees me! I pretty much resend our relationship especially since we were best friends for so long! Does anyone else think that it seems like he was lieing to me about not having feelings for her or is it just in my head?

P.S. sorry this is like an essay haha

My boyfriend got me a 200-300 dollar Christmas present & he is tight on money it's the first time he had a good portion of money to himself & he spent that much on me He calls me beautiful every day & he only hangs out with his friends on the weekends sometimes only 2 nights a month He mentioned this girl named Kate when he was drinking one night & he got in an argument with my cousin's husband because her husband is a pill head and shoots up. Well he got mad & didn't want to talk anymore so he started saying he slept with my cousin, and her sister, just to piss off my cousin's husband. I made him go home with me because I wasn't going to let them fight cause my boyfriend was drunk & her husband was sober. He told me he wanted to have sex with this girl named Kate. I didn't make him delete her off Facebook, but we argued about it. The next day when he was sober he apologized & said she was ugly, that he was just mad about what happened that night.

Well he went drinking the other night with his boys & things went weird & I had to go pick him up off the side of the road drunk as hell Well he was threatening to fight my cousin's husband again & my neighbor and said he was texting my neighbor so I checked his phone, ready to fix anything offensive he said to my neighbor but I saw he had been texting Kate. I knew I shouldn't look, but I couldn't help it. When we got home we got in an argument because he was asking her to hang out that night I deleted her from his phone & FB & he got mad & I told him I was breaking up with him if he added her back or spoke to her again. (we live together) He got mad & tried to leave, but I wouldn't let him because he was drunk. I told him to stay the night then he could get the F**k out if she was more important than me. He told me he'd never love me & never did but he eventually calmed down & finally laid down. I wasn't crying or anything, I was actually shockingly fine with breaking up the next day. I wanted to. I got on my ipad & began surfing the net when he got closer to me & wrapped his arms around me. I firmly told him to let f**king go of me & he refused, he then told me I was more important than her & that he'd never talk to her again even though his friend was apparently the one wanting her there because he just became single & wanted to have sex with her or her friends, & he was so romantic that night he kept saying how much he loved me & kissed me for ages He still hasn't added her back, & he nagged his friend for getting him in trouble. I don't know what to believe. He's never texted any girls like that before, & he usually ignores ones who message him. I am not jealous of his female friends, I want to meet them. I joked about him getting kate to make him food because I didn't want to today & I said too bad he didn't have her number, he responded, I have it right here. pointing to his head & recited it! What the hell? Should I be mad? He said I shouldn't because someone else's number is that backwards..