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This is my longest relationship. I know my boyfriend is going to go all out. He went over the top for Valentine's Day and out first date and hinted he's gonna go all out because he thinks I deserve it. I want to get him something special and over the top without spending all my paycheck haha. He loves comics and super heros. He is 23 but doesn't drink. He is a mech major and is hands on. He loves SciFi and leather bound books. I was thinking of getting him a 6 foot framed poster of all the marvel characters, a leather bound copy of Edgar Allan Poe, and a jar or box (nice one) filled with 365 things I love about him, and maybe a little something for when we're home alone ;). What do you think? Too much, not enough, welcome to all ideas. Please and thank you!

So I bought my bf a really nice present for Christmas and he was planning to do the same. He was going to get me some graphic novels but he let it slip and then said I could just read it online so he would get me something else. Two months later, there's still nothing. Add to that the fact he doesn't spend much time with me anymore, he always says that he's busy working but he'll send me snaps of his friends when he's off work. His only days off are Mondays and he's started to blow me off on those days too saying that he's tired and he needs to study. When we do hang out, we don't go places anymore. We just have sex and watch tv. We haven't been on a date in months.

Week before last I got stomach flu and he was so sweet and attentive. I'd told him before that I felt neglected and he said he was sorry, he's just been busy. But after I got sick he was sweet and I thought he was making an effort. So on Friday I said "what are we doing for vday" and he said that he was working and it was a better idea to go out Sunday, less people. 2pm Sunday I ask where we're going, he says he has work until 8pm and he didn't feel like doing anything. I was clearly upset but all he said was "sorry" and changed the subject.

I love this guy so much, we've been together 5 months (18F/22M). I feel physical pain when thinking about letting go of him, but every time I try to bring up my feelings or talk about something serious he just ignores it. He doesn't like talking about hard stuff. What do I do? I was thinking about giving him one more month then breaking it off. Also, I think he might be broke because he's stressed out about student loans but maybe he doesn't want to admit he can't do the same things for me he used to? I don't know