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i feel like this guy isn't interested in me anymore but won't be upfront with me. I'd rather him just admit that he thinks we're incompatible rather than telling me to not take it personally and that he's not in the position to get serious because he owes child support and there's other setbacks. Then says he really likes me and wish he was in the position to see where this leads. We've had long winded conversations through text and then on the phone for almost an hour.

i feel like he's shady and that he's making up excuses of why he can't get serious, but then think that he does care and they may not be excuses because of the time he puts in to discuss these things with me.

Then, I had another thought. The sex we have is so hot and I'm wondering if he's type casting me as crazy. Maybe he doesn't like me but he invests so much time trying to ease my mind because he's worried I'm the stalker type or I'll smash his windows or do something else terrible. Maybe he just hopes I'll go away but when I get upset about his dwindling interest, he spends almost an hour on the phone with me to make me feel like he cares just so I don't go psycho.

I'm not psycho, but I feel like his excuses are lies. Why would he act like he cares by discussing this stuff with me and then not care in other ways seeming like he hopes I just go away?

Should I believe he cares, but can't get serious now because he's not in the position or should I think that his efforts are to protect himself from a crazy lady? We've been seeing each other 4 months and after two months is when he said he can't get serious.

I met this guy 6 months ago.. we are in the same batch in our training room. out of 25 people there are oly 2 girl.. one is me and my friend who is already married We all were like so close as a best friends... but this one guys become so close to me.. we always used to hang out with me. he always go to office and come home wit me and always hangout wit me.. he's not so friendly to any one more than me but he's so cute and handsome than me. I know he check cute girls but never left me.. he's a food lover... he's been my side when I lost my father. I have to take leave for 10 days from office and have to spend my time with my family at that time he missed me a lot he always make plans to eat out for breakfast wit me becoz we work in nightshift. I wil go rarely and have breakfast wit him then come home at mornings. he always says thts the chance I can spend some time wit u. he always text me and be jealous of other guys. he hate me hanging out wit other guys. I always hold his hand because it's makes me secure. every weekend we go out... its called friendship? he also holds my hand. he never hide anything from me but I always feel insecure wit him I do no y maybe he deserve who worth. he always give mixed signals.. I m not sure. he always fight wit me a lot. I like him. but I have to get married within 3 years becoz I lost my dad. he's Christian and I m Hindu we are from different religion and I m just 21 and he's 22 . he never steaded his career so am I. but mom like him but she don't allow me to marry becoz she's afraid of my relatives. and i m sure he's not ready to marry if we fall in love. he had his big brother who is immature so I m not sure. I do like him so he is.. but I m not sure what we really am. some time I want him to protect me but we just met 7 months before. but we r like know each other for years. we are always like Tom and Jerry it's a cute fight he fight a lot but we will solve it very soon