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Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex a few weeks ago, but he pulled out before he ejacualted, he usually would *** on my belly or butt. We have done this a few times already and he is sure that nothing got inside of me. My period would always come at the end of the month between the 21-23. My last period came on June 23, it was a few days late. But my period never came in July, and now it's already August, it's been over 2 weeks late. I want to take a pregnancy and my boyfriend suggested to test to ease our mind of worries. To find out if I am pregnant or not. But i am scared to take a pregnancy test, but it's the only way to find out. I'm only 17, and if my mom found out i am pregnant she will be very mad. I was going to wait a little longer for my period to come. I have been feeling some bloating in my stomach lately. I think it might be just that i am stressed out a lot.

Just read this article on yahoo (i'll put the link below) where a man stabbed a transgendered woman (who he met on a dating site) 119 times after she told him she was born a man, and supposedly it was AFTER they had sex that she told him. Now, in no way does this justify what he did, but i think it definitely could've been prevented. I hear it all the time from the trans community, that because they're scared of this happening, they decide to wait a while -- till the person catches deep feelings for them to disclose that information. I don't find this smart at all, i think waiting for a long time to tell someone is way worse and they'll most likely be angrier than if you would have told them when you first started talking and before they started to really like you. Wouldn't it be safer to tell someone (specifically a love interest) from the get go? https://www.yahoo.com/news/man-stabbed-woman-met-dating-112151722.html

My boyfriend has a really high sex drive and I want to wait until marriage to have sex. He said he could respect it and that he may struggle with the idea. I told him this is a strong moral of mine that won't change and that if he is aching to have sex then he can get a side hoe. He mentioned that he isn't entirely a fan of the idea because he wants to commit to the relationship and that would be wrong.
I told him that as long as he doesn't tell me when or who he was messing around with then I don't care.
The problem is that I've really gotten to like him a lot and the idea of him in bed with another girl kills me.. I don't know what to do.

So I've know this guy and have had a crush on Mo since I started working for the company I work for. He is in the same company, but a different location and part of the management team. I've had a crush on him since I met him, but he's always had a girlfriend.
He invited me over Friday night for the first time and was acting like we were just freinds all night while we played different board games and listened to some music. Then we went to go watch some TV, and Mo put his arm on my shoulder. One thing led to another and I stayed the night (first time with any guy). He offered to let me wear his clothes to bed after we had sex and was just different than normal fuckboys I deal with. He didn't really cuddle or seem to want morning sex, and he also has not text me since.
Should I ask him to hang out again, if so how long should I wait? And what can I do to let him know I want a relationship instead of just sex.