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Foreign white or black vs American.

I ask because a lot of black men do not say kind and loving things towards us and about us. You know the words :b*tches and ho*s" come ti mind and it hurts. There is less pride due to the fact that African pride was stripped from African Americans during slavery, such customs and linguistics were erased over the years that many black men today enjoy the European beauty more than their own.

African men keep their pride and do not stray from it, they tend to be the most educated, traditional in family and sex life...meaning that a lot are virgins..African are the most educated peoples in America right now.

Now white males, I understand that some black women are very interested in white males, you have assimilated to their culture to be successful in America, and some of you are just well..interested. American white males tend to like what they see in the media and American media presents the black woman horribly and could do way better. If you see Jerry Springer in the morning by a flash you understand what I am talking about.

European men except for Russians, are not bombarded with the racist media like American white men are and do not hear all those silly stereotypes. I have been to fore gin councils where Italian men and English men go to and they see me as a woman first not a loud screaming thing...and I am so quiet ..American men ignore me...I mean white. I get hit on by black men, yet in an ober - sexual way.

I have learned so many things about my own heritage through strong, beautiful, and dark African men and at places where some Foreign men are..I have experienced the genuine and unprejudiced kindness from sweet and pale European men.

I am just saying that if America doesn't favor us,...well maybe we can date someone who does. I now am learning European languages and wearing African jewelry and I feel pleases.

Which would you choose...poll.

So I had major surgery on my foot. During the heavily medicated process I slipped an said "I love you" a few times it was not reciprocated in words which is fine I'm not one of those OMG he doesn't love me types... But...

I am begging for sex we haven't had it since a week before my surgery (5weeks) and he just keep saying no you need to heal... But he's affectionate and caring (he may not say he loves me but he shows me)... But he just had the flu. He made a point to call me after 9 every day but slept the rest of the time which is fine...

He also is concerned that I keep doing what he calls "emotional check ins" that's where I am like are you happy are we OK (again he is not a mushy guy (meaning he doesn't SAY he loves you etc he sows you never has been with ANYONE not even his kids)and he is like "You have been doing that a lot lately what's going on"

He also is very upset that he is sick and can't get to me. NO one else is stepping up to help and he's like I am sorry I am sorry...

said happy anniversary last night (6 months no big) and he was all "Happy anniversary" but not like ecstatic, but sweet.. And I said, "I know it's not a big deal but still" dead silence (so maybe I hurt him dunno)

And when I told him last week my daughter was gonna be happy he was coming by (after I expressed my pleasure in that fact) he said, "She isn't the important one" which was cool to me anyway..

so I just want to ask from guys, since every guy I know is like sex..yup... now... good.. foot hurts..who cares my thing is up... Is this dry spell normal?