Search Results: i slept with him too soon

Recentlay a GaG'er asked a question about how long girls waited before having sex. Girls received a lot of unhappy down votes for choosing to wait. Guys don't realize we don't wait to play games, we wait to be sure you are on the path to genuinely liking us. We know that having sex won't make you fall for us and we like to be more secure. If we are waiting it is because sex is important to us personally.

I know the following is true: Guys don't have sex to fall in love, they fall in love to have sex. If a guy is only interested in sex, nothing will change that. But how about the opposite? What if you were thinking of a potential longer term thing?

If you met a girl for the first date and ended up sleeping with her, would that color your opinions of her? Like, "wow, she is easy. I'll keep her for sex but not thinking of anything more now." Or does it truly not matter?

If it DOES matter, how long/what is the time frame you look for before having sex with a girl you are considering for a LTR is acceptable?

Today's world, so many girls find themselves throwing it away so easily, then being heartbroken when the guy treats them like a friends with benefits with no interest in anything more. Some even claim to be immune and only in it for the sex, but most are truly shattered and feel used. Is there a correlation?

Truth, honest truth. I know a lot of you guys are younger and just have sex on the brain, but think about this question seriously for a minute:

If a girl sleeps with you too soon, does it change your opinion of her and what you expect from her?

Bonus question: what is the "magic" number of dates you will go on before you expect sex from someone (I know each situation is different, but roughly) you are considering for a LTR?

So these days most people sleep together first, or within weeks of meeting someone. Things happen too soon in some cases an the stages of courting and truly getting. to know the person doesn't seem. to happen.

People tend to learn about eachothers bodies before their minds. Fair enough to those who want and have FWBs. Thats their choice but I am talking about dating and enjoying getting. to know someone.

Guys I meet after one date I know I dont know them enough for sex or anything else. I do kiss early on but other stuff doesn't need to be rushed. Most guys seem. to have crazy sex drives and no self control but thats a whole other issue. Thing is if someone wants sex after date two its very obvious they are not after a relationship or any commitment.

I have only met one guy who was patient and decent my first ever bf. An he was just 17 when I was 19. Guys I met after him have all been wasting. my time. Saying they love me for sex, saying they want to move in to get sex, wanting me to sleep over for sex. Had many dates but only with my first bf. An a guy cooked for me one time but even he couldnt. control himself.

I understand humans are sexual beings but why the need to rush it. Guys I've met up with aged between 22-32 have all been wanting sex straightaway but claimed they want a gf. As soon as I meet a guy I dont feel like having sex and do not feel that until I know about them and spend time with them but guys are visual an feel it quickly right?

Out of the 8 guys I've met 7 were too impatient and one was totally patient. So I am uncertain as to whether iwill find a guy with a little bit of patience. I am talking 2-3months max.