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Alright... maybe someone can help me make sense of this. Today I had my second date with this girl i like. We went to see a movie. After the first date she told me that she would have liked it if i would have been more active (hug maybe even kiss she said) and so on. So today I tried to do that (hugged her when meeting her, tried holding hands for the movie, even kissed her at the end). Afterwards she told me that she had liked our date and had fun but holding hands and the kiss made her feel uncomfortable as she thinks my feelings for her are ahead of hers for me. All of that just really confuses me. And now she needs some time to think which is fine and ill give her of course. She did hold hands and kiss me back but didn't like it. What should i make of all that? Please help me out.

Some people have sex on a first date. . . at least, that is what I have heard. For them, the questions are "will we end up in bed?" and "his place or mine?" If you are one of those people, this question probably is not for you.

This is for those people who are a bit more reserved. For those people, the idea of PERHAPS having a good night kiss at the end of the first date is exciting and maybe there will be some hand holding during the date. How do you feel about holding hands on a first date? Do you like it if a guy reaches out to hold your hand? Does it bother you? Is it something that you just tolerate? Or are you one of those people who wants to do much more than holding hands?