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I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months. In the past we have had problems with him lying. It started off with small stupid things but there have been a few occasions when the lies have been more serious. For example, after seeing Tinder on his phone I asked him to delete it and he told me he had and then I saw it on his phone a few days later. The other day I was in his flat while he had gone outside for a few minutes. I noticed his facebook was open so while I was bored I just clicked on it and on his messages (Without expecting to see anything). What I did saw was my boyfriend talking to girl after girl asking for their snapchat names and asking them to come to his flat and 'spoon'. Bear in mind we are both in university. I confronted him and he told me if I look then I will see that he spoke to all of these girls on the same day during his freshers week at uni. He told me he was drunk with his friends and they were all playing a game messaging random girls to see how far they would go. He told me he had never cheated on me and never would because he want to be with me and only me. He was clearly upset as we were arguing. I decided to believe his version of events but I told him I am not happy about him playing this game as it makes me look like a fool. I was also angry because one of the girls he was talking to he had told me a few weeks before that she had added him on snapchat and had asked to hook up but he said no. Turns out this isn't true. What actually happened was he added her then she asked him to snapchat and he didn't answer. He told me he lied because he wanted to make himself look good by making it seem a girl had tried something with him and e had said no. Ironically he said he had made this lie so that I would trust him more. I have yet again made it clear that I do not want him lying to me again. This all happened a few days ago and now I don't know what to do with myself. I feel like this is going to hang over me. I don't want to be paranoid