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Okay, so I have two friends. Let's call them Hanna and Rachel. And both of them are Christians.

Hanna is open-minded about love. Rachel only believes in the love between man and woman.

Hanna and Rachel has been friends for a long while. Hanna started to have feelings for Rachel. Hanna tells Rachel about these feelings. Rachel puts it in the back burner, and continously sees guys and such behind or in front of Hanna. Hanna feels like either Rachel forgot about how Hanna feels, so she brings it up again firmly. Rachel confirms that she knew, but "forgot" about it. Hanna wants a relationship with Rachel, but she knows that it will never happen. Rachel continuiously flirt with guys within Hanna's sights or used her to get to a guy; whether she and this guy would kiss physcially right behind Hanna's back. Legit, just a few feets behind. Hanna has expressed her anger about this situation numerous times, but it doesn't seem to have any effect on Rachel. When Hanna asked Rachel what she thought and that she wanted closure to help her move on, Rachel refused to let her not even a slight bit. Hanna continues to feel hurt, and it seems like Rachel doesn't care.

What are your take on this? I don't think Rachel is a good friend, but Hanna doesn't want to face that reality and continues to believe on the friendship. And if I may add, Hanna used to have depression. I don't know if she still has it, but I don't need Rachel to turn Hanna for the worst. And Hanna claims that Rachel is her best friend, but Rachel is ALWAYS hiding shit from her. Rachel has used me to send sexy pics to guys, or has used guys, etc. Hanna doesn't know this. I do feel that Hanna is a bit clingy, and that she needs to stop feeling so sensitive about other people, but she has never put her feelings first.

He wasn't nice to me at all when I started there i thought what a jerk and avoided him, after 1 yeat we had to work together as a team, we slowly got to know each other more and more he is 20 years older unhappily married and would leave but for fear of losing $ he has said too bad we didn't meet earlier we would of been great, we've become close I like who he is and I know he feels the same, we tease flirt and play little jokes on each other and make each other laugh a lot he's said when I'm off work he misses me, he'll text me those days I'm off. He was on vacation and text me when his wife went shopping he said he would before he left... we text almost each day cute things funny things thanks for helping at work today if he/I have a bad day we always try to make each other smile, we stand up for each other at work, he says I'm one of the only ones there he trusts, if he knows I'm nervous about something hell text me not to worry, I'm a good person things will work out, he likes to pick on me but in a playful way I do the same, when we give each other advise we usually take it. We as always make sure to say bye to each other at end of our shifts, often we text something to each other right after we leave work he likes to pinch, or bang into me move my chair while I'm in it, he compliments my physic but then pick on my big nose which it isn't jokingly, points out if I blush... Says he's never met a girl like me who banters back sosarcastically and funny and hadn't smiled or laughed so much in a long time. One friend there said she's never seen him so happy and how moody/sad he is when I'm not there, if he's having a rough time I get him to laugh smile He said if he had to do it again he'd never marry her He said he wished we meet earlier, says I'm like no woman he's ever meet, he akways sits close to me seeks me out at work has breaks with me if I text he texts right back he told someone what would she want with an old guy like me if only I was younger So