Search Results: relationship commitment

Why should I have to hold myself to the same standard if I don't need to get married?

One thing that I require of a girl I marry is that she has a very low (at most 2) number of sexual partners and has not had sex outside of a relationship. But as a guy you often get challenged with the question, "do you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Commitment in relationship?

When a guy wants sex with no commitment, what will u do to make him commit instead of asking for sex?

queenaisha

Xper 3 Age: 28

Dating

Are we more boyfriend girlfriend or just fuckbuddies?

We've talked and made it clear that "this is a thing." And we're exclusive, but the only thing thats changed about our relationship is now we have sex once or twice a week. We hang out the same way, talk the same...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex girlfriend reaching out to me after 4 days of breaking up. What should I expect and what should I do?

Her and I dated for a solid month. Pretty serious. Romantic. We broke up because she had commitment problems. She said we could maybe date again in the future maybe. She asked if we can stay friends. I said yes. We ended...

Tyler2019

Xper 4 Age: 26

Girl's Behavior

What do you recommend that I do?

So recently I just met this girl in college and we’ve been talking a lot and it got to the point where we were sleeping with each other in her room and cuddling. Just recently, last Monday we both had a talk and confessed...

angel5921

Xper 4 Age: 25

Guy's Behavior

Hey, what are your thoughts on this?

My ex boyfriend and I broke up 2 years ago, but we've never ever cut contact because we wanted to get back together when he was ready as he didn't want any commitment just yet. Neither of us dated however he had a couple...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Guys, do you think I did anything wrong?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Did I do him wrong?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

If he can't give me what I need why does he still want me?

All I ask for is for him to put more effort now and then I am not asking for commitment until we both decide we want a real strong relationship. He is kind to me. But he doesn't want me to be hopeful of anything. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

“You have the commitment, I just don’t like labels”?

What the hell does this even mean when it comes from a guy? It’s been almost 2 years, and we were Netflix and chilling last night, and I said jokingly, yes, a sarcastic tone, “Oh I get it now, you want the benefits of a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Will this ever go anywhere?

My ex boyfriend and I broke up about 2 years ago as he didn't want any commitment, yet we've been in an "almost relationship" ever since because he doesn't want to let me go as he says i'm the girl he'd want to marry. But...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Are we dating? What are we? Girls please help me understand her answer?

I’ve been talking to this girl long distance, and I don't know what we are. We’ve both made it known that we like other and we’ve even went on vacation together and hooked up once. I’m confused by her wishy washy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What to do with a guy that is scared of commitment?

Hello guys, I’ve been dating this guy for three months now. We spend a lot of time together, we are having a lot of fun. The other night he came over and a new housemates said “You must be the boyfriend!” He...

blueblues

Xper 3 Age: 31

Dating

How long should I date a guy and see if there is a "spark"?

I met a guy on a dating app and thus far we've been texting daily for almost 2 weeks and been on 2 long, enjoyable dates. The first lasted 9 hours and the second was ~7 hours. I feel at ease around him and I think we got...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Help with Girlfriends Bipolar on commitment in our relationship?

So for the last 8 months we've been dating everything has gone fairly good. We get along very well and have a good time but recently the last few months have been a struggle for me. We started off in the honeymoon phase...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Will a girl date a guy who has no intention to ever go into a serious relationship and definitely no possibility of taking it further?

A guy doesn't want to get into a serious relationship and definitely not get married in the future. He is convinced that marriage is not for him as he eventually gets bored of people and thinks that if such a thing were...

Kamonashis

Xper 3 Age: 30

Dating

Attempting to reconcile with commitment-phobic ex. What are my chances of success and what advice should I keep in mind?

Hi good people. I just broke up with a guy who I had been talking to for almost a year (10 months). When I say we were talking, I mean we started out with the understanding that we had amazing chemistry and connection,...

M1989

Xper 2 Age: 36

Break Up & Divorce

Ex broke up with me, but still hasn't moved out after 2 months. Does he want to be together or not?

So I've got a bit of a dilemma on my hands, and at this point I truly don't know what's happening. A little background information.. I'm 27, my ex boyfriend is 25. For the first year and a half of our relationship things...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How to survive online long-distance dating

About a year ago, I met my boyfriend on this site... very unexpectedly . It was strange, difficult, expensive, and wonderful all at once, but we managed to make things work out. When this all started, we both agreed 3...

Idonthaveausername

Influencer Age: 31

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Break Up & Divorce

Guys, Is it over for good?

Me and this guy have been together for 9 months, set up by a mutual friend. We got on really well and had a great time together however I never thought he was fully invested in the relationship conmitment-wise. I'm his...

Anonymous

(36-45)