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Sometimes I feel like my boyfriend just doesn't get me, and honestly, it makes me feel really insecure and doubtful about us sometimes. We've only been together a couple months so I thought it'd be different once he got to know me, but nothing's really changed.

Today on the phone he said sometimes my puns are "a little too much." When I told him almost all my close friends and I laugh over my puns and I laugh over theirs, he responded with "are you sure they're not one sided?" And even though we were kinda joking around, it hurt my feelings. I literally had to ask my friends weather or not they thought my humor was dry and annoying (like my boyfriend seems to think) and they all replied no! I even went back to texts with my guy friends, one of them frequently complimented me on my analogies and humor.

Maybe I'm too sensitive but it seems like my boyfriend and I just aren't compatible sometimes. And tbh I'm kind of scared he'll cheat on/leave me, especially with a certain girl, because I foind out he used to like her, he hangs out with her all the time, and I see that their connection is better than ours. He laughs at her jokes like he never laughs at mine and I don't know what to do besides get over it. Is it wrong for me to consider this a dealbreaker?

I'm a female though I have a lot of guy friends

We play games on the xbox and its pretty chill, whenever we have a problem we leave it until that person comes back to us and be chill again.

But I feel like I'm outcasted from my group, its different from before its not usually like this, they would treat me like whatever I say is consider weird and not funny when, someone else makes a comment or joke they laugh eventhough i made a similar statement but i shrug it off and laugh it off

But then the "jokes" started aiming at me things like
- "You can't play"
- "You get carried"
- "Fat, stupid"
- "Naive"
- "Omg take a joke"
- "Its just a joke you know im kidding"
- Omg stop being gay
I don't know but I've become quite sensitive to these comments that i usually should laugh off and be chill but it got to the point where I fought back because its fun to make fun of each other in a friendship way right?

I would say things like "Hahaha u play gay", "Shut up and play" " Omg jeez its just a joke"
But of course they fought back together hitting me with things like "Stop being a bully" , "You never think about our feelings"
Etc...

I've cut off from my group to think but I have no to talk to about this considering they have helped me in many family problems and problems with myself

Was it a good idea to do what i did?
Should I just accept all the jokes?