Search Results: 20 questions

I'm in the first semester of college here in the U. S. Because I grew up in S. Asia, I have spent time in the past at a monastery previously, as is customary for many at some point, if they choose. I spent 2 years. Here, I became acquainted with a guy (1 of the 1st I met here), who's turned out to be what girls call a player. Actually, he runs around with a few others that also are. He found out that I spent time in a monastery, and asked don't people there have great mental discipline... to which I replied it is practiced. He said good, and begged me to help him. I agreed. He said a lot of college girls now are too thick, as he said, and wear black leggings while keeping a straight face when guys like him approach. He's tried to win against them, but he can't, and he's mad. He asked me if he could have 1 of his guys get a girl like this to approach me, and watch as I showcased my superior mental discipline to see how it's done. I said sure, as I'll help with anything. So the guy who set it up and I met. He got a girl (he said she's 19), to approach me in the common. About 5'4, maybe 160 pounds (he meant thick), had on black leggings. She asked me a few questions. I used every technique I'd been taught... but after 3 seconds my eyes went down, landed on her big butt, then upper legs too, a my jaw dropped open hard😮😮😮😮. It was because of the black leggings and too thick. I can't ignore that.😖. I was humiliated, so I looked up, but when I did, I looked right into the face of a really cute brunette-who kept her face totally straight, looking at me. I finally went, "ohhh, aww😖😖😖" and gave up. The guy who watched was shocked. I'm humiliated. I didn't think this could happen. Should I tell the guy the honest truth of what happened, that I can't beat these girls, that honestly... there's no way you can? He's the leader of those few friends, and he asked for my help because he can't win against it. I can't either. Nobody can. What should I say to him or do?