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I've started dating this guy I met online.
We've only been "talking" and "dating" for a month.
He texts a lot... that's it. He texts me EVERYDAY...
I voiced my concern that I would like to talk on the phone a little and he does only when I initiate it.
I initiate hanging out as well. I also voiced my concern to him that I feel like he doesn't like me like he says he does. He says he doesn't know why: he texts me, he meets up with me and he says he wants to see me again... I asked him why he likes me.. he said I'm different ( cliche ) and that I'm not a whore ( like other girls he met online?) and that I'm peculiar like him. That I'm a good influence as well because I don't smoke. He said his room mate used to smoke but his roommate turned into going to the gym and grew out of that phase. He told his roommate about me and he said his roommate approves that I don't smoke...
Like our dates.. I don't mine picking up the bill at all or paying for my meals.
First date we split it... Second date we split the bill... Third date, he paid but he says to pay him back or buy him stuff the next time. I don't know if I'm overthinking it.
I REALLY feel like he's still looking for something better to come along and that I'm not his type but because I approached him first on the website he will tolerate me...
We have kissed, we have held hands, we've hugged, we've touched each other sensually but have NOT had sex yet. I refuse to have it until I know him a little bit more. He says he won't make do anything im not comfortable with but when I'm with him he tries to push it thinking i'll give it up...
I like him for his personality.. I think it's cute and weird. His lifestyle SUCKS and he goes with the flow.. I'm not sure if I should just leave before I get dumped by him when he finds something better.
Do you think it's my insecurities or do I have a reason to worry?

This guy from my class acts strange only torwards me. He's CONFIDENT guy and loud and always stands out in class.
He has a girlfriend i thing for 1-2 years.

Also he's been pretty strange torwards me. Him and his one guy friend sometimes comment something about me or have their thing and it all started with my and his first interaction. Since than it was weird.
He's sometimes pretty normal torwards me but usually it's like he ignores me but looks at me. I catch him staring often and he looks away or he run his hand through his hair and looks away.
Few times he started to act normal torwards me but it lasted short.
He always talk to my friend normal when i'm with her and ignores me but usually she hates him.

I taught first that he hates me but he sometimes acts nice and his guys are normal torwards me but he still like he avoids me. They started to going out to smoke where me and my friend go.

Why? Why he's hot and cold? He stares and i catch him and when he's passing me he act like i don't exist?

There's this guy I'm kinda interested in. He's a lot older than me though, 8 years older. He never seems to want to push things with me though, I think because he is older. He comments on his age a lot when we're talking. I like to think that we're both good people, but at the same time we both get high and drink. (Just cannabis, relax. And I don't even drink a lot. Last time I drank was new years.)
The other night though I had gotten high by myself, and he was buzzed he said. We weren't together, we were just texting. We started asking each other REALLY personal questions. Like he asked what kind of underwear I wore, then I asked how many girls he'd been with, he asked my bra size, and I asked his dick size. I also told him I'm a virgin. The next morning we were both kind of awkward about it but just brushed it off.

Now though he's promised that he could invite me over to smoke with him when our schedules are cleared up. We're also kinda planning to drink, only that's a loose sketch at this point because I'd end up having to stay over if we get drunk. And I'm just not sure like he wants, or what he's expecting. out of this, is he expecting sex?