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Guys, is it possible for you to still be hung up on a girl you haven't seen for over 2 years and were just acquaintances with?

My friend is getting married and I'm going to her wedding next month. About three years ago she set me up with her guy friend, and he is also going to be at the wedding. There was absolutely no chemistry from day one... I...

Ildskf

Explorer Age: 38

Girl's Behavior

Why does my cousin have this overwhelming paranoia that her boyfriend / husband will leave her?

She didn't invite me to her wedding because she was worried I would try to break them up and prevent them from getting married. Then she was worried I would jack up my efforts to break them up so she got married 1 - 2...

523206720

Master Age: 40

Guy's Behavior

How would you feel if a girl you considered a friend deleted you off Facebook?

I'm just curious how it looks from his point of view. It's a complicated story. He was new at our college. We had 4 classes together. He had a girlfriend back home. We got closer over the semester and I gave him a ride...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

What do I do I'm once again cuaght between a rock and a hard place with no answers?

So there's a lot more to it but this is the gist. I met a girl a few months ago. We connected amazingly she broke my heart back then by sleeping with another guy. I stopped talking to her she moved away. All was fine then...

isshetheone

Xper 4 Age: 32

Girl's Behavior

My best friend is afraid of me getting close to her?

TranceSai

Xper 5 Age: 33

I will make this short. I met my best friend at my job. We have become close friends to a point we can talk about anything. I'm a guy (21) and she is a girls (20). I am there anything

I will make this short. I met my best friend at my job. We have become close friends to a point we can talk about anything. I'm a guy (21) and she is a girls (20). I am there anything to support her. Our experience? I told her that her boyfriend was using her for just sex. She denied it and later saw he really was. Then her second boyfriend, they moved into sex 1 month later, which I told her was too fast. the guy ended up breaking her heart. But for some instances, I ended up falling in love with her after that break up because we got closer from it. I told her but she said she doesn't look at me the same way back. She is afraid to lose our friendship. That hurt me a lot. So now, 1 week after the breakup, she found another guy. But this guy was going to use her for sex and I know because i talked to that guys ex and she said the same thing. Now, my good mornings to my best friend are weak because she only expects them from the guy she's dating. What I'm saying is, we acted like our friendship was like relationship, but now, her emotions of friendship goes to the new guy. I told her, I want to leave because I don't have a purpose here, when I have to watch the girl I like, love someone else. She told me she needed me and want me to stay. But how can I stay when she pushes me away day by day? I just don't know what to do. Do you girls see a problem here? I am the typical nice guy who wanted a chance with his best friend, but his best friend doesn't want to ruin the friendship. But at the same time, She is pushing me away and she said she is afraid afraid of letting me in closer because of what her ex did. I did tell her, I'm different because my love for her makes me care dearly for her. I can't get over her either. I'm confuse and I need feedback on this situation. We get into fights because I get jealous. Our conversations are fairly weak now. It used to be great when she was "single", But now she's pushing me away but at the same time she wants me to stay. HELP!

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Flirting

What's your take on this situation? Do I have a chance?

I'll start by saying that I'm 21 and in college, so it is embarrassing for me to post this but I can't deal with guys and I need help. Over the past course, I have become sorta friends with a guy who appears to be very...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Psychotic love triangle between my ex fiance and his rebound. Does he love me or her? What should I do?

I'm trying to get my ex fiance back, after two years of being apart. We were living together, engaged and had a daughter before I left him. After I left he tried everything to get me back, but I refused. A month later I...

kozmo

Xper 4 Age: 35

Dating

Falling for my ex after already getting over her for the past year and a half?

Am I an idiot? We "liked" each other on and off for 3 years, with the last 6 months of that actually dating. I graduated, she broke it off, I went away to college, she found a rebound that lasted until I got back from...

Dunlops

Xper 5 Age: 33

Girl's Behavior

My girlfriend and I are having relationship problems, does this mean things are getting better?

The girl and I are having relationship problems. She's been wanting to move to the next step, but I have delayed talking about it. The last few months she has been drifting away, I noticed she lost weight, and so forth. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Broke up with me cause of distance. Can I ever expect a future with him?

I've been dating a man in the military for almost 4 years. We started seeing each other shortly after highschool ended. He actually had a crush on me all throughout highschool. We hungout before he went off to boot...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

How long do I wait for him to reach out?

So I poured my heart and soul out to this guy and we've had a mutual attraction for a while now. We got to know each other while he was broken up with his girlfriend. They're back together and getting married and I didn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Girlfriend and I of 6 months just ended relationship over a big mistake I made. I want her back so bad but know she needs time and space. Hope?

The brief story is that, I broke trust with my girlfriend of 6 months. No, I didn't cheat but I used her credit card to purchase a flight back after our original flight was cancelled. At the time, I had already bokked a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

There this player at uni who has gone through broke quite few girls hearts. Is it okay if I tease and have fun with him to return the Favour?

Also how would I go about doing this. What ways can I tease and mess with him to get him obsessed with me. (He's coming over my place on the weekend) when teasing I don't mind getting physical either. Appreciate all tips...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Also how would I go about doing this. What ways can I tease and mess with him to get him obsessed with me. (He's coming over my place on the weekend) when teasing I don't mind getting

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Break Up & Divorce

Is it weird that I don't feel bad after my boyfriend broke up with me?

Brief history- I've been with who now is my ex boyfriend for 4 years. He was my everything & I thought he was the one. We got into a really bad argument over the weekend & told me he was not looking forward to moving in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Is t weird that I don't feel much of anything after a break up?

I've been with who now is my ex boyfriend for 4 years. He was my everything & thought I had found my one. We got into a really heated argument over the weekend where he told me he was not looking forward to moving in with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Why is having to see him, making me want to delete him off my Facebook?

It's a long story that I'm going to condense. We were new friends in January at our college and over the semester we warmed up to each other, resulting in us sitting by each other in class (4) and me giving him a ride...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Is he really over me? Can you guys please help me. So I know where I stand. Be Blunt.

So I had a summer fling with my bro's best friend and it ended pretty badly. He told my brother before he felt bad for leading me on. We stopped talking for a while. He ended up getting a gf but she broke his heart. But...

Toto16

Xper 5 Age: 32

Break Up & Divorce

Ex gf and I still talk every day, hang out multiple times a week, how do I go about cementing us being back together.?

So my ex gf of 2 years and I broke up about a month ago. I made an effort not to talk to her for a week or so but she kept calling and texting me. I simply gave in. Now, I am not some soft dude. I've just never loved...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

How to get over this small set back in my relationship?

To start off, I have really bad trust issues. I was cheated on a lot in my last relationship, and the girl he cheated with was his 'best friend' and he always assured me that it was never 'like that'. He ended getting her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls when your close male friends get dumped do you usually try to set them up with potential female friends? When do you stop "playing matchmaker"?

Ladies do play the role of "matchmaker" for close male friends after their particularly rough break ups/getting dumped/cheated on? When do you stop attempting to "mend a broken heart"/help them get over a girl? After...

misanthrope37

Xper 6 Age: 38