Search Results: giving a guy my number

There's this guy who I've been talking to for some time now. Over the past few months he has complimented my appearance, always teasing me in a fun way, giving me hugs, and always finds a way to talk to me. He has even gotten jealous a few times when i hug my other male friends and he makes a point about it. I got his number through my close friend, but I'm always the one starting the conversations, the weird thing about the conversations we have over text is that he's always using words like "bro" "bruh" "my g" and even "sista", he NEVER addresses me like this in person. My friends who are constantly around him and i are always telling me that he likes me for sure... but i don't know. It's all just confusing, and it doesn't help that he's very guarded with his emotions. He doesn't make an effort to message me, i mean he has me on social media and has my number! Please tell me what you think!

Let's say a teenager vaguely recalls something that happened when she was 4 years old. Though her memory is hazy, and her mother swears it wasn't real, she remembers a male friend of her mother's giving her leg massages. They were alone on a bed, and she doesn't remember wearing pants at the time. He would rub her legs and bottom after her mother left for work. One day, he touched her private area, and the girl freaked out on him. She told her mother and the guy swore it was an accident. Another time, while taking a shower, her mother asked the guy to help the child. She refused and yelled at him until he left the bathroom.

If you had to compare this to something like a traumatic event, what number on the scale would it be? 0 is none at all and 10 is the highest. Don't know why I chose the word bad, but whatever... What I really mean is "wrong."