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I married my girlfriend of 5 years, we were married a year, after some financial problems she ran away and asked fora divorce on our wedding anniversary, she's been seen with guys and flirting all over snapchat, moved back to her hometown where 4 of her ex's live...

She still not sending my divorce papers. What does the fucking Bitch want? Isn't she whoring around and enjoying after hurting me and fucking off? Why is she pulling me down even further?

I've been silent and quiet my whole life never really have a bond or a relationship with my family or really anybody. Sure I've had friends and people I have like but they never really knew me as a person. Sometimes I would tear up cause of how bad my life's been, from almost put in for adoption to momma pulling a knife on me and there's more to my life but I try to not let it affect me. Right now there's this one girl that I like a lot but it seems like she doesn't care bout me. She's one of few people that care about my situation in my life but she doesn't really care bout me. I don't know why but recently she showed her true self when she could have done it months ago. She knows I like her but has told me that I don't have to understand who she is or care about her cause she doesn't want me too have feelings for her. All of a sudden she's she's been acting like this to me I don't know why. I ask her why is she like this she said I was born this way. Her birthday is a few weeks away and I've been saving my money planning on getting something for her. Now a days she jus says i dont care to almost everything she's cold hearted. I want to change that honestly because at one point I kinda treated her had because I was frustrated with my life. She put up with all my ways and I like her for it. I told her I'm sorry for being like that but lately all she says is I don't really care bout you like that I jus care bout your situation. I really want this girl because I feel like something happen in her life to be this way I want to change her and be the best for her. As for me I've been going to sleep with headaches pain in stomach etc. She doesn't care if I care for her but it doesn't make sense how she would act like that now. Right now all I want is her I care for her a lot but she doesn't care to believe it I don't know why or what to do.

I don't understand attraction and have given up on idea of understanding it,

Do any of you guys notice, no matter how good looking someone is, you don't feel anything for them,
And some people are average looking, but they just pull you in, like a magnet. Why is that?

I date quite hot women but this cute petite woman (i don't even notice her for 2 months in the gym) but then she started giving me eye contact and she looks like a nerd but now has taken my heart away, there is something in her eyes, her personality, everything about her, i feel so drawn to her as if she is pulling me towards her,

Can anyone explain how attraction works?
And how we don't feel attracted to someone but once they start to reciprocate you start liking them more and more.