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So be aware... I'm 21, and haven't worn shorts or taken off my shirt in public since I was like 14.

I usually only wear long pants, and I usually wear long sleeves too, but if it's somewhere a bit hotter I'll just wear a regular short sleeve shirt... but that's the most revealing it gets.

This is due to me thinking it looks better on myself, and to my personal modesty standards... though I don't push my modesty standards onto others, nor do I think any less of them for dressing more revealing. Otherwise I might as well break up with my girlfriend... though she doesn't dress super revealing, she does dress casually revealing pretty often at times. Though her shorts don't show her butt cheeks, they still are very short, and she sometimes wears crop tops and sleeveless stuff, and at the beach she wears bikinis. But I personally don't care, her choice.

But either ways, the beach is my girlfriend's favorite place of all to go... we've been together for almost a year, but I haven't gone to the beach once with her yet. And she was quiet about it at first, but more recently she was like, "Come on sweetie, go to the beach with me! It'll be fun, I promise! I know you haven't worn shorts or taken off your shirt since you were 14, and that you have strong modesty standards, and I'm totally fine with that... but there's nothing wrong with breaking free from those standards just to go to the beach. Just stop worrying about it and go have some fun with me! My girlfriends are fun, but I want you to be there too!" And as she said that, she was hugging me and smiling at me, which was really cute, and it was hard to look her in the eye and say no... but I just didn't respond.

The main thing I'm worried about is people being surprised due to me breaking free from my usual modesty standards, and if someone I know besides my girlfriend sees me and is like, "Omg, I've never even seen your legs before!" But that's it, really...