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My brother is an asshole. I can't tell whether he's joking or being serious. I do everything for him without complaining. He has a girlfriend but never demands her to do anything for him when she's sitting right next to him. I cook dinner on a daily basis for my family and clean up after them too & don't even complain. I'm a very nice sister and I listen to everything he says and but whenever I talk he doesn't listen to me or tells me to shut up. He has called me ugly, worthless, a loser, and has told me that I'll never find a real man. His girlfriend rarely cooks dinner, or cleans the house but the one time she ever does it he says how it's so good and praises her but he never thanks me at all. He favorites my little sister by talking to her and gets excited when she comes home or with her presence. It makes me feel dumb when I'm around them and I feel left out cause I remember my brother saying that he doesn't talk to stupid people. So in other words I'm stupid to him? It bugs me when my brother says hurtful things to me or to people without thinking and his girlfriend just sits there and doesn't say anything. I remember him saying that I'm just an extra in this house and that I don't belong here. Why does he treat me this way when I do everything for him? He's like a big bully. It isn't just him either my whole family bullies at times. When in reality I'm the only one who's always there for them and the most compassionate. It got to the point where I'm jealous of people that have good bonds with their siblings cause I wish I was loved and care for by my siblings. I care for them so much and put them before myself. They never do. Should I stop? How do I? Everything my brother's girlfriend yells at him about cause she doesn't want to do it for him I don't mind doing and end up doing it.