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This is about the recent ex I found out had a girlfriend the duration of our relationship and gave me an STI. I’ve been going to therapy trying to heal, he called me some hurtful things like a hoe and said I meant nothing so I left him alone after expressing how i felt. That was almost a month ago, now he started blowing my phone up telling me to pick up. I was annoyed and finally answered asking what did he want and he began accusing me of telling people about us and bothering him and his girlfriend.

I haven’t done anything and I saw the girlfriend followed me which I found weird so I told him no one is bothering your relationship and since I meant nothing why does my words matter. He told me well if you not then ok just leave me and my girlfriend alone. He said I liked and unliked and kept following and unfollowing her and told people we were exes. I just laughed but now I’m concerned on who is talking about me, and why the girlfriend is stalking/lying on me. I told him if he’s happy I’m happy since after finding out he cheated on her with me and gave an STI she’s still with him I didn’t care. I just want to understand why now…

A guy I love is my ex boyfriend, we been in long distance relationship for 6 months and I found out later that he been seeing an escort the whole time while we were together and after we meet I don’t know if he still fucking with another girls or not. He spend all his check to an escort to get a revenge on me because he thought that I cheated on him. He even told me that he used to see one white girls so many years since she was 18 and just turn to be a hoe and now she maybe 21-22? and he called her to come to his house and it ended up that she robbed him for $1000 and he even told me if she didn’t rob him and let him hit at the first time or the second time he will make her his girlfriend instead of me and break up with me after that. but when we were together he treated me nice except he talk to another girl.
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A guy who put 100% on me mean that I never met him but not sure when he gonna come see me. When I told him I couldn’t afford my college he send money to pay for it. When I said I want a new phone he sends me money. He asked me what u doing I said I was watching YouTube so he send me $350 to pay for my YouTube premium so I don’t have to watch ads. And he always been like this never change. And he has a son and be with his son all the time so I don’t think he will see an escort and when I told him about my ex he was like “ew”he has a plan to buy me a car too , when he said anything he always keeps it. he has a plan to come to Thailand. And plan to have only me. His son older than me🥲

If you were me , who would you choose?