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Over a year ago I “dated” a guy, we mostly hung around and slept together for a short period of time, no feeling involved on my side (I made sure let him know so I wouldn’t lead him on). Fast forward to today, I have a fiancé (not him, this guy is the loml, my childhood crush) living together and we have a daughter.

anyway, guy A from the past will randomly try to message me to ask if I still think about him, how I’m doing, blabla, even tho I always turn him down because I’ve moved on and couldn’t care less. Last night he sent me a photo of some hike with a city view (the thing is I’m aware we had sex there when we were together). So much for subliminales.

I really really hate cheaters, but I’m not sure this qualifies as cheating? If my fiancé did this to me I would want to be informed, because I think it’s disrespectful, but I don’t know his girlfriend so I’m not sure I should even bother informing her of his annoying ass actions. Am I overreacting?

My family is making a scandal to me and my boyfriend in the company. It is utterly because they don't like my boyfriend. I was thinking that my boyfriend was just misunderstood to false accusation against him. He scammed before for his sister to finished college and also he was accused raped by her ex girlfriend who only exploited his money. Now that he met me, everything is very chaos. My family tried to isolate me and not allowed to go anywhere even work. They want me to stopped working even if without my consent. I tried to escaped from the situation with help of my co-workers and I now live alone peacefully. Sometimes, we met with my boyfriend or went to his house but neither did I know they paid guards to spy if I visited him and that is why I was caught but in the early morning I was able to escape again. I am so mad why all these happen. I know my family only wants one thing it is to return to home but I don't want to live in isolation and no WORK!

After I was able to escape, I didn't know they went immediately to my workplace and made a big scandal. They talk to my manager, supervisor, senior and hr manager. They destroyed my image that I was manipulated by my boyfriend who is a rapist and scammer. And, I forget them for my boyfriend. They said I am not a good daughter , sick because of boyfriend who has aids (which is not true!) , was SCAM and used (not True). I never went home anymore that I do this shit and many bad things about me.

Whenever I go to office, it feels like the environment is weird. People are avoiding me and sometimes treating me bad. I am so tired and I know my family embarrassed me. But this is only my source of income because even my family stolen my bank accounts and things!

Should I leave the company? or should I stay. I need your advice badly.

Lets say your daughter is 19, in college and she was doing OK but didn't really like it. She and her boyfriend of 3 years, fooled around and she got pregnant. They were both happy and the guy makes enough for them to live comfortably. Would you be disappointed in her?

Honestly I don't want my future daughter to be a young stay at home mom, but I wouldn't be disappointed or shame her for it. It's her life at the end of the day.