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One of my closest friends had been struggling to make ends meet the past few months, and he hasn't been able to spend on himself. So last month, I bought him a copy of modern Warefare so he can have an escape when he gets home, because he really wanted that game. But he got mad even though I said he could pay me back whenever and he paid me the full amount immediately and he said I forced him to make him pay me money he didn't have.
A week ago, he was upset he didn't have enough money to get Luigi's Mansion, and he and his wife love the series. So my buddy and I split the cost and bought him a copy and ourselves a copy so we could play with him.
He fucking blew up. He got incredibly mad we have him a gift and he sent us the money and said it was now a Christmas gift from his wife. And refuses to play it until then. My buddy and I were left feeling like shit and unappreciated and whenever we've brought this up, the other friend just tried to jokefully play it off in hopes we drop it. Today I snapped at him and he said his wife wanted it to be a Christmas present, and her wants outweigh ours and we need to change perspective.
We both argued we got it as a gift and we wanted to play, and he should have said that from the start because he has come off that he doesn't care, and I said he needs to take a step back because two of his friends are mad about it. He said he doesn't need to explain himself and it's silly we are as upset as we are.
I'm just curious if I'm justified to be mad or what?

Do you think these groups are unprepared for their afterlife and which group would you say is more unequipped and gambling that they are right? It seems that these people would just give up their sexually immoral fetishes or unbelief fetishes and just prepare anyway for their afterlife. It seems that they are arrogant and assuming they must be right. This is a big thing to be wrong about and if you are wrong about it, it has serious consequences. These people will be in an afterlife in which they are not suited as a soul to be able to thrive in.

I think it is high spiritual arrogance to showboat by not being ready for the afterlife. There is no excuse not to be ready because if your fallback case is that I wasn't given enough reason to trust God's existence or enough justification that certain sexual situations are demonic or unholy, then you are trusting in yourself and making your life you own god. It is selfish attitude and it is best that people are prepared and ready at all times. Saying on Earth you didn't get prepared because you didn't think an afterlife was a such thing is mocking God and God is not mocked. Be ready anyways and reject your self beliefs. Trusting yourself doesn't pay off and your eternity is too important to blow and waste a shot at attaining it just because you decided to go your own way. We need to forsake our own spiritual ideology and put our spirituality in the hands of the Eternal Creator of the Universe who created time, space and matter. Have you shared this vision before and do you now currently still do? Please share!