I think most guys don't try that hard to hide how they feel about a person physically. Without being overly stereotypical, I think it's generally true that girls more frequently tend to be kind or subtle in how they express their opinions on someone's looks. That might even be what's making you feel nervous. I mean you might feel if you were in his situation, you'd probably say things to be nice. But guys, on average, tend to be a little more direct about physical preferences. All that to say, if he says he doesn't care and he's evidently still turned on by you, then he probably means what he's saying. I personally prefer larger body types, and I know many other guys do too, or they are simply turned on by aspects other than body size, such as fuller breasts or booty which tend to be enhanced by some weight.
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"I'm at the point now where I'm 100% confident and I'm not trying to change my body anytime soon and hurry to lose weight. "
If your boyfriend does care then what will you do? And furthermore if you'd only choose good health if your boyfriend wanted you to have it what does that say about you? People complain that being healthy is too hard yet they go to a job Mon-Fri for years on end when they don't like it. Missing the fact that being healthy can have a lifetime of benefits for them personally.
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He hasn’t seen you yet but if you really gained weight he probably will dump you, and with good reason. He was overseas getting shot at while you were failing to keep yourself hot. He’s military, which means he probably gets more opportunities from cute, hot fit girls. Why would he stay with you if he could be with them? Any guy who says looks aren’t everything is a cuck. Looks are everything.
Hard to tell. Without seeing you two together. Myself I like thick women. But some men don't. If he ain't dated them in tne past. Just let him see you naked and see how he reacts
You say that you are 100% confident, and at the same time you wonder if your guy likes your shape.
So: meet him, and find out.- u
You are overthingking and creating issues where none exist stop worrying over nothing
If he's overweight, why can't you be?
Yeah, probably. Most of us do.
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