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A married guy in a way propositioned me & it's like wtfh are you smoking. As a confident / high self-respecting woman I found been offered, in a way, a fling (and with a married man at that) incredibly insulting. Particularly when I did nothing - no flirting, no skimpy dresses, etc. - that'd imply I'd even entertain the idea of casual sex.

So there was a guy worked with had quite a bit of respect for.

He made a comment that implied sexual interest that, when you get right down to it, implies rather low opinion of and/or little to no respect. How can a man already in a relation, after all, more or less propositioning someone else legitimately respect either woman involved? I think it hurts worse cause I did absolutely nothing - no dressing skimpy, no flirting, etc. - that would imply I'd be interested in casual sex/a fling anyway & the way he did it as he implied good in bed was as if he was doing me a favour with the implied offer/invite.

I didn't take it to HR. I couldn't be bothered. Just left. The job was a meaningless podunk minimum wage thing that I was far over qualified for and even if had stayed wasn't worth mention on my resume as it'd undermine the rest, I was already planning to leave before probation ended anyway.

But when I attract the attention of more successful, and in relation far more decent, men it really shouldn't bother me so much (I don't care for such things having my own money, etc.). And I look back & it's like... what the fucking hell did I do to deserve such disrespectful behaviour?