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So, today, my male coworker was telling me about 5 girls he's juggling. He met one on the internet, three at bars, and the other one was a former girlfriend.

He told me that he straight up told all of them that he just wants to hang out and also date other people at the same time. But, if he finds someone he really likes then he said he'll drop all the other ones in an instant.

Personally, I have never dated so I don't know how modern dating should be. Is this how things are? In my opinion, I think the only women who would be okay with this proposition are self-loathing ones with zero self-respect.

What do you think?

I know that many people meet in bars and clubs.
By clubs I don't mean grungy ones. Places with good music and atmosphere.

Also hear that a lot of single women will go there with the specific intention of meeting guys and being approached by them.

I for one think most (single women at bars, are creeped out by guys approaching them, and are immediately defensive. So I don't approach at all.

How many of you do this and are willing to have guys (decent ones, not drunk idiots) approach and talk to you, who may want to meet you in a way that can possibly lead to a date?

Feminism has turned Western straight white men into weaklings, who are bitter and whiny and often can’t even approach a girl. Even if they do approach a girl, they’re so scared of their own shadow that they can’t bring themselves to be truly charming and flirty. There’s not enough effective brainwashing even in the feminist utopia of Sweden to get women to like feminized men: "In this new world of the sexes, some women complain that Swedish men are too politically correct even to flirt in a bar" link . Because of this weakness, they’re also falling behind in their careers, making them even less independent and even less attractive.

Feminism has turned Western straight white women into demanding and aggressive harpies, who want sexual equality where sexual equality would benefit women and sexual inequality (euphemistically labelled as ‘choice’ or ‘chivalry’) where sexual inequality benefits women. They’ve lost the femininity in their personalities, and so they rely exclusively on the femininity in their bodies, and yet, bizarrely, they’re surprised and angered that so many men want them only for their bodies these days!