Search Results: dating a co-worker

I work with this man, and I admittedly find him attractive and have a crush (I know dating coworkers isn't the best idea, I don't want to date him. I'm just curious.) He's very kind and quiet. He stares at me all of the time, like he's keeping tabs on me. He comes up to my desk a lot and asks me how I am or just says hi. Before, he was very subtle and I'm sure nobody noticed.
But lately, he's been doing it in front of his coworkers, and he's also been standing very close to me in front of others like he just doesn't care. The other day, I was talking to another guy that obviously has a crush on me, and the guy in question walked past and gave the guy the dirtiest look I've ever seen. Today as he was leaving, he stared at me with this smile on his face for a few seconds, while his coworker was standing right there and watching.

Everyone knows he has a girlfriend. He's been with her for a couple years now.

What's the deal with him? Does he just not care that his coworkers know he has a girlfriend and is flirting with someone else? It doesn't exactly look good... I know he loves his career and wants to move forward.

Do you think he's actually having more serious feelings for me? Or am I being naive?

I can tell he likes me, at least in some capacity, but I can't tell if it's just as a friend..

We work together (yes, I know dating coworkers isn't always the best idea). I was interested in him much more than he was in me, at least at first. I started around 2 years ago and found him attractive from the first time I saw him. He's honestly so good looking, and I kind of figured he must get a lot of women. But I just couldn't resist making myself known to him, so I started saying hello in the hallways, staring at him occasionally, and smiling. I tried to make conversation but he kind of shut it down immediately.

Over the past couple years, however, things have changed. So, now he's always staring at ME. When he walks past my desk, he glances at me. Sometimes he locks eyes, holds it, then smiles. I smile back and look down, then when I look back up he's smiling to himself. He usually looks at me before he leaves almost every day..

He's also started coming up to my desk and saying hello, and asking me how I am daily.. but I keep chocolates out so he might just be coming up for that? it's kind of become a routine, and I wonder if somethings wrong when he doesn't. But he doesn't really make any conversation beyond "how are you"...

When I was talking to a guy friend of mine, he looked so jealous.. I saw him over my friends shoulder, and he looked him up and down judgmentally, a sour expression on his face.

One time, I ran into him in the hallway and he was trying to figure out how something on the printer worked. I stopped and asked him if he needed help, and then he stood so close to me when I was showing him.. I could feel his chest against my back... We walked together afterwards, up the stairs, and he almost seemed like he wanted to put his arm around me? He was walking that close.. Then he rushed to grab the door for me..

So what do you think? Does he seem to like me or is it just a friend thing?