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Search Results: defensive boyfriend
How to get rid of backburner girls in boyfriend's life?
Simply put, my boyfriend is extremely insecure, about himself and about me. He's always afraid he's going to lose me to a better man. He has a flock of floozies that follow him around. They don't mean anything to him...
cbirnell
Xper 3 Age: 37 Space, Contact, and Budding Relationships?
This is the third time in our two and a half month relationship that it appears the man I am seeing (we've called each other boyfriend and gf) needs space. I am totally fine with that, but it's as iff there are no...
PDC2F
Xper 5 Age: 52 What would you think if your boyfriend of 7 months hasn't invited you to his house yet?
Or how would you feel if he looks at other girls and when confronted acts like a complete jerk about it. Or when you look at other guys he gets mad and starts whining about it. How would you feel if you confronted him...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I nicely give the message that it's really over for good?
when my boyfriend and I broke up, it wasn't because we weren't in love. I left him but he tells his friends it was mutual. it was in the sense that we both realized we were no longer making each other as happy as we...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I let her go?
So here is the gist of story: I dated her. Turned into an idiot. Deserved to get broken up with. Since then I've been trying to mend our trust barriers. We both get very defensive. We try to cope by setting boundaries...
FreeLeave
Xper 6 Age: 33 Why does this girl hate me and protect me at the same time?
If that question confuses the hell out of you too than you should understand my PAIN! I dated her. Turned into an idiot. Deserved to get broken up with. Since then I've been trying to mend our trust barriers. We both...
FreeLeave
Xper 6 Age: 33 I found Playboys in my boyfriend's closet..he got extremely defensive!
So I was at my boyfriend house the other day ..I hadn't been ther in awhile Because he had a lot of roomates..anyways I was looking for the toe nail clippers that he said were in his closet while he went off to take a...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) The past is the past... right?
Alright, I'll admit it, in elementary school I was pretty sad. Everything about me screamed BULLY ME TILL YOU DROP, EASY TARGET HERE! I was quiet, wore track suits, and my hair was about as clean as my shoe. I look at old...
Roxxy101
Xper 5 Age: 30 Why does he break up with me monthly?
I met my ex/boyfriend several years ago, we dated briefly, fell in love quickly, then he broke up with me (then again after 3 weeks). We connected 2 years ago, got back together, and he told me that every relationship he...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) He cheated, should I sleep with other guys?
So my long-term boyfriend has been cheating on me. He's been saying things for a long time that alluded to it, but when I ask him upfront, he gets angry and defensive. One time he butt-dialed me, and I heard him with...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why is he hiding stuff from me?
my boyfriend, & I have been together for a bit; & he is a great boyfriend, but he ended up going to cali for a week. & we have barely been texting, or even talking on the phone. then he calls me to ask a question about if...
LostInLove123
Xper 4 Age: 32 He got mad at me, what do I say to fix it?
so me and my ex boyfriend started seeing each other again, and I already seem to be causing problems. Last night I confronted him about him talking to other girls, because he got defensive when I would talk to other guys...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do you become a mature young adult?
I could find my soul mate or someone I'm compatible with but the relationship will end because I'll end up getting cheated on, lack of communication or because I might do something immature like let a guy hit on me, or...
Anonymous
(36-45) I don't know what to do, should I stay or should I go?
My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 5 months and I know is a really short time but I'm in love with him and he does to but we argue way too much we have broken up like twice already and he has come back to...
makip
Xper 6 Age: 33 My boyfriend defends me a lot from bullying etc. but sometimes I like to handle it myself.
How do you tell your boyfriend just to settle down with being defensive and let me handle it in a nice way and not hurt his ego..
Anonymous
(30-35) I think she likes me but is being very defensive about it?
Me and this girl have been getting to know each other better over the past two months and I started to like her about a month ago. For a while I was afraid to say anything to her about it but finally came out and told...
Shadowmunkey
Xper 5 Age: 37 Should I forget about him?
I dated this guy about three years back for about ten months, after an year he came back and stuck around for a whole year as friends wanting another chance. After a while I told him if he really wants a chance then I'll...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why can't my boyfriend communicate?
If I try to have a conversation about anything remotely serious about improving our relationship or his feelings, he completely shuts down and goes on the defensive. He feels like I am always accusing or lecturing him,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is my boyfriend cheating?
At the beginning of this year, around February, I found out that my boyfriend was still seeing his ex-girlfriend for the past 1 year we had been together. It all started when a his ex called and told me that I was...
kalthea
Xper 5 Age: 38 My boyfriend seems really distant, is it my fault?
my boyfriend and I have been going out for 6 months but I've known him for four years and we would always just randomly talk we werent close or anything but we got along well... we've been going out for 6 months and he...
Anonymous
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