Search Results: dropping a guy

Have you dated anyone who has gone through a traumatic experience (and still has emotional baggage)?

I really like this guy, and I've been dropping hints that I like him for many months. We're finally (almost) together, and he's opening up to me. I had no idea but he opened up to me about a traumatic experience that he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I not hurt any of these guys?

Let's just name the three guys in concern as Dave, Steve and Gale. They're all really close friends of mine but the problem is two of them are asking me out while the other is just on the verge. I turned down both...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm uncomfortable with kissing and stuff until I know the person and am comfortable with them. How do I explain that to the guy I just went out with?

I went for coffee yesterday with a guy I met online. Ended up hanging out and chatting for six hours. He was so lovely. Really sweet and easy-going. I dropped him off at his car and he said he liked me and we seemed to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Do you really have that many friends? And how important is the number of friends vs the character of friends?

Long story short, I don't have any friends accept one and we have barely been talking recently because she has been really busy. The friends that I did have in the past are long gone, and the couple of so called friends I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I kiss him?

Ok so I have been dating this guy for about a month. I know by the title of this you'd assume it would have been less time, but he is my first boyfriend and I his first girlfriend so we don't really know when exactly your...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Frustrated with guys who want to talk, but not go out?

It seems like instead of picking real losers who are abusive or shady, I've migrated to a different kind of man: one that will talk on and off for months, may even bring up going out, but will never turn those words into...

misssouthernbelle

Xper 7 Age: 34

Reasons why a guy would seem interested, but not make a move?

I've been friends with this guys for a year. At first, I had him friend zoned. He was somewhat flirty in the beginning of our friendship, But I always pointed out that he's a year younger than me and two grades below me,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Females, why are you so subtle when flirting or dropping hints?

I know that many guys including myself would require a sign equivalent to getting hit by a bus, so why do girls act so subtly? Girls, would you include things you do to get guys attention please?

cooper1dog

Xper 5 Age: 27

Girlfriend told me she kissed another (black) guy last Saturday night?

Ok, so don't take his question/post as a racist post as it is not; rather just a part of the question/discussion I want to have with others on this site who may or may not have experience with a similar situation and/or...

Exploring1031

Xper 4 Age: 50

Does he want to kiss me?

I feel like my new boyfriend (we've been dating for a little over a week) is dropping hints he wants to kiss me. When we text he sends the "😙" emoji sometimes. (For those of you who can't see, it's the emoji with kissy...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

Is being too busy the equivalent of being too available?

Now, i've been told to not be so available because guys think its a turn off. Even the guy i like told me not to be that way. So im not. I tried to take up hobbies (which i drop once school starts), i work, i go to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, He only gets into me when he's drunk?

One of my oldest friends used to only want to hook up when he was drunk. Now that we aren't getting together he has been dropping bombs on me occasionally. First it started out with he had always been attracted to me and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy problem, someone please help me out?

Hey so basically a guy I've been talking to for about a month seems to have been dropping hints that he could possibly like me. There's so many flirty things that he's said! So I started to like him and today I had asked...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Was the message I sent to my ex mean?

My ex boyfriend broke up with me 1.5 months ago the day before I left overseas to visit my family. He swore at me and said he lost interest in me because my dad didn't like him (they haven't even met-my ex chose not to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys like to 'toot their own horn'?

Okay, so there is a boy in one of my classes and he started acting interested in me. It's been about 2 weeks and we are getting along really well, but i don't know if he actually likes me. Today we were talking and he was...

TurtleUp

Xper 4 Age: 30

Society & Politics

Women Handle Stress Better Than Men?

Recently I was reading through a Take a guy wrote about men, women, and success, to which some females responded talking about how studies show that women handle stress better than men and how men commit more suicide, as...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Rejection, why can't you girls do that?

When im texting back and forth with a girl that I feel like things are going well, I'll ask if she'd like to do something with me sometime. Then the texting just stops... Every. Fucking. Time! I'm not even asking to go...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I drop him or see where this goes?

Me and the guy I'm talking to have been friends for about a year. He tells me he likes me, I give it a shot. A few weeks in and I'm wondering if this is going to be a waste of time. I've never dealt with a guy who is shy...

franky435

Xper 4 Age: 27