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Been dating this person casually for 2 years. After the first 9 months he said he loved me. I couldn't respond to it and simply kissed him. A month later I reciprocated and he said he felt the same. One month later he went out with another chick. This whole year I found that I was the one asking to see him and do things together. He broke up with me the week of his birthday because I asked if he was seeing someone else, then came back to me during the summer like old times never stopped. Then he once again started back pedaling. He told me when he really has strong feelings for someone he puts distance between them... I didn't get it. He claims I scare him because he can see himself with me forever but is scared he can be the man he's supposed to. (uuummm?) I ask him why dont we see each other more than a few days a month. He gets upset and says I always ask that question and when I do ask it he doesn't want to see me for a while. Which leads to weeks of no visits just phone conversation and text. Then when he's ready to see me and I say I enjoy his company wish it was more frequent he says here we go again and back to no visits. Now he says he needs a break to get his head right. I asked what are the rules and what does the break mean... he says no rules and he doesn't really know what he means by taking a break? I said,"do you want to just be friends?" He said no because he loves me and knows he has strong feelings for me. I told him I'm completely confused. We are on a break now I guess and now he answers the phone and responds to text faster and better than when we were not on a break. What's his deal? Any advise?