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Say what you want but I personally think if you're in a serious relationship, one of your responsibilities is staying attractive for your partner, especially if your married, and before you ignorantly skip the rest of this to write a hate comment I'll tell you why I think this, so hear me out. I think in a relationship, staying attractive to your partner is just as important as things like flirting, communicating and letting your partner know how you feel. I see way too many times where people would get married and think it's a reason to let themselves go, they think "Now that I'm married, I don't have to care about my looks because who do I have to impress?", well what about your Wife/Husband? Then they wonder why doesn't my Husband have sex with me anymore? Or why does my Wife watch porn instead of having sex with me? And in the worst cases they find out that their spouse has been having affairs, which I'm totally against, the #1 responsibility in a serious relationship is being loyal. Also, don't get me wrong either, this needs to work both ways, if your a slop yourself sitting on the couch watching Game of Thrones chowing down a bag of chips and you tell your partner to lose weight for you, they're eating salad while your pigging down McDonald's in front of them and you make them go to the gym alone of make them blow the dust off the old treadmill in the guest room, then you're even worst, and you need to be with your partner on this journey even if you're not fat yourself. I heard a man say "If a woman can be married for 10 years and still fit in her wedding dress, then her husband is one lucky son of a bitch", but granted this was some random guy I overheard and I couldn't find the quote on the internet so you can take that with a grain of salt, I don't know any quotes with the genders reversed but they'res probably one out there. One more thing, this does apply to both men and women.

So, this express hiring service in my town was advertising, "HUGE HIRING EVENT!" Medical jobs, office jobs. Come on in!" I went in there dressed all nice, filled out the paper work, handed the girl my resume and she said, "Okay, have a nice day."
"Eh, where is the job fair?" I asked. "I thought there were gonna be employers here with booths."
"Oh no, we just wanted people to come register with us," she told me.

Worst part is, I already applied with them almost a YEAR ago and they found me NOTHING!
My dad also applied with them and he said the contacted him only AFTER he had already found employment.

I went to two other express employment services. One told me I was poorly dressed and I'm too old to qualify for their job placement program. I went back a third time, and asked them to help me find a work, instead the guy put me behind a computer and make me take typing and excel tests. Than told me my typing speed was too slow and no one will hire me.

Than I went to another one, they told me, "We have no office jobs", than I went online and there a TON office jobs!
I gave this express service my resume too, and told them to get me a specific position at a specific company, but that I am open to other options. NOTHING!

I am starting to think these are just a bunch of scammers, and I am even concerned about my personal information getting stolen.

Met her a few months ago while visiting the club I have gone to for a while now. I turned down dances from her for a few visits opting for conversation and drinks instead.

We eventually hung out with a mutual friend of ours at a bar, played pool, shot the shit. Turns out we got a bit in common with humor, travels and interests. She is currently a part time model and a student going for a marketing degree online.

So I finally got a dance from her one visit along with her number. She texted me the day after getting it saying she enjoyed spending time with me and that I was sweet.

She has never asked me to come see her in the club like lots of strippers do. We have flirted a lot over text, sending gifs, emojis, she sent two selfies (one from underwear shoot, then other a selfie in a white dress) and long messages/replies.

We went out on a lunch date. She fed me a piece of my meal and had her phone away the entire time, also paid for the food when I had my wallet out. I tried to go for a kiss, but she turned it down saying she had sushi breath. Sent me a gif of two people kissing instead.

In the club when we hang out she never asks me to tie her, she has given me kisses to the cheek and always laughs and smiles with me (did the laughing and smiling outside club too). She has given me a massage before, no mention of charge, seems excited when she sees me.

Tried to cheer me up the other week when our mutual friend and I got into a fight, checked in on me and asked how I was.

She asked me things like "How many kids do I want?" "What do you value in a relationship?" "What do you like in a woman?"

Recently she said I was in a dream she had and asked if she would look better with darker blonde hair or lighter. She also texted me last week she would come up for air soon ( said something similar the day we had our lunch date)

I am not sure if this is part of her game, but I am staying arms length away to stay detached.

I'm looking to buy my first car and I was thinking about getting something to give off a sort of bachelor vibe but refined. My dream is to be sorta like roger smith from the big O.

Now I can pull of the suit because the few times I have gotten dressed up are the few times I have been flirted with. I'm thin so I look great in dress pants and a button down with a vest (obviously I landed two jobs 😂). But the problem is his car

I'm young and low on funds so I can't afford some high end vehicle (I wouldn't have to write this question either) but in my search for cheap reliable cars I remembered that crown vics are always cheap sincd the po-po drive them.

So would the girls think the car is cool or creepy? I mean I would be driving this shit everyday to work and home but I can totally see myself putting on a suit and tie and looking badass when I get my car... to an extent... if I don't look creepy. What are your thoughts? Should i go for it or stick with this mazda I've been looking at? Thanks