Search Results: girl initiating sex

School's star athlete: First he chased me, now he's avoiding me. Why would he seek out a relationship during such a stressful time?

I go to a relatively small sized school, & the athlete social circle is tight. In the beginning of the year, the best player on the football team expressed interest, though I didn't realize it at first. He'd go out of his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

GUYS: Why Would You Ask A Girl To Stay After Sex, Provided You Weren't Planning On Having Sex with Her Again?

i want to know, because i'm seeing this guy, he's 25, we had sex and then we went out afterwards. i was going to just go home by myself and he asked me to go home with him. i figured he wanted to have sex again. but we...

xviiinfinitum

Xper 5 Age: 32

Break Up & Divorce

Do you think I was just a rebound?

I met this girl and we had an amazing connection pretty quickly. We texted and talked on Skype every day for a couple months. We talked about some really deep things and she put a lot of emotion into our interactions. We...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys put so much effort into trying to hook up?

I was talking to this guy for quite some time and thought he was fairly into me, we recently had sex and now I barely hear from him unless I initiate contact. I don't want to come off needy, but it's a complete 180 on how...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Two potential boyfriends - who should I choose? What should I do?

I've just graduated and have never many relationships, and am not very experienced sexually. This kind of bothers me sometimes so I want to do something about it before I get to be like sad and alone with cats. There's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Guys: How to touch girls?

I've never really tried dating before (more interested in building good grades, etc.), but now I would really like to meet a great girl (not for sex, for companionship). I've tried with a few girls, but I find it so hard...

Smurf123

Xper 5 Age: 32

Girl's Behavior

How do you act towards a guy your obsessed with?

I have a feeling this girl I've known for two years is obsessed with me. She told me a while back when she was super drunk. She has been head over heels for me said she's crazy about me. We're long distance right now. We...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Do girls like aggression or being passive in starting sex?

I mean like the guy controlling the sex, initiating it, pulling the hair picking girl up or just hanging back going with the flow and letting the girl start everthing.

PineappleBreath

Xper 6 Age: 33

Flirting

There's a guy I'm interested in, but I don't know how to proceed because of the situation... advice?

I asked him if he was dating anyone, he said, "sorta...", and I asked him what "sorta" meant. He said that he had this long distance thing with a girl (she lives 5hrs away and goes to another college) he knew since high...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I a "side chick"?

Me and this guy have been talking for a little over a month now. I'm trying to sleep with him, point blank. That's all it is, nothing more. He just got out of a 6 year relationship two months ago and he was engaged. We...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I'm really starting to like the guy I've been hanging out with, how do I go from just a girl he's casually seeing to his girlfriend?

We've gone on a couple dates, (1 was a family wedding...), I've met his friends and family and we've hooked up once and now I've realized he's not just some guy who I want to just have sex with once or twice and then move...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I did things with him but now I feel terrible. he's a virgin?

Its a bit of a long read sorry. So this wonderful guy I met a while back, I finally got intimate with him and kissed him on the lips. I've been trying to initiate the kissing long ago but up until recently he made out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy pursues me a lot but he wants me to reciprocate more?

New guy I met we like each other. Initially he was a bit shy but he made all the first moves like talking to me first by approaching and also he asked me out etc. after date he contacted me. Then I texted him once and now...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Had sex with my ex-boyfriend after a year and half, now what?

I don't usually like positing online but it's not something I can talk to many if not any about. I met M when I was a virgin and I was always confident that I'd wait till marriage. He's 27 and I'm 22. I had a really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is she interested in me? No dating experience. Need help please. 22/M?

So there's this girl I really like. She is also the first girl I've had feelings for in 5 years, so I'm not good at figuring out if a girl likes me. I've really started to like this girl who I work with at this restaurant...

Just_A_Guy_01

Xper 5 Age: 34

Is my boyfriend only with me for sex?

My boyfriend kept asking me out until I said yes. Now only a few months later, he's become disconnected from me. Things have always been a little awkward, but I always figured he was just nervous. Im the first girl he's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Who usually initiates sex in your relationship?

Is it the girl or the guy? Or does it differ?

farmerjohn1324

Xper 5 Age: 39

Guy I'm dating showing mixed signals? WTF.. ):?

We been seeing each other about 3 weeks now and only this weekend we had sex. Background info: I just turned 23 and he'll be turning 22 at the end of the month. He was kind of quiet sometimes on the first date. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)