Is there such a thing as being 'TOO' available for my FWB?

[Anonymous]

im not the easiest girl to get into bed but once I've slept with you ill do it over and over again till i get bored of the guy.

i turned my now friend down when i first met him more than a year ago, than i got a bf and we became friends, not bestfriends but pretty close. after i broke up with my bf i had sex with him. we are now casually having sex, weve met up 3 times and yesterday i asked if he wanted to have sex after i finish class and he said he would probably be asleep by than.

I've never had a guy say no to sex with me before, i understand that his tired and a busy guy but any other guy would careless about sleep if it meant having sex with me.

should i wait for my friends with benefits to ask me for sex next time? instead of initiating it again.

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+1 y

i feel like im offering myself to him on a silver platter, should i make him work for it abit again?

[Anonymous]

Forget all these guys... they don't know the meaning of the FWB... including the guy you are with. in all honesty though... guys do say no to sex, its not like they want to, its more of a "have to" thing. but believe me he will keep it in mind that you want it and will come find you when he can. As for the silver platter thing... you may want to lessen it a little bit. There is a difference between FB and FWB... you claim to be friends with benefits (even though i sense FB).

[Asker]

well i feel like it was friends with benefits and is now turning into FB cause he never texts me anymore unless i text first (not regrading sex)

[Opinion Owner]

yup you have been FB zoned. in this case then you can throw yourself at him as hard as you want. cuz his opinion of you doesn't matter anymore... just the sex

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for the vote

[lovin_u]

You have already answered this urself..
"i feel like im offering myself to him on a silver platter" - then dont, if thats how u feel. Its not about making him work for it or not. It should be about how u feel about it. Simple as that!
Offer it as much as what ur comfortable with - no more, no less! What works for you, not him :))

[Splintercell]

My view of friends with benefits is you are selling yourself short. After having sex with many different guys your won't know what a real relationship is, because you are used to cheap relationships and sex. Sex is so much more than just the physical. It's about the physical, emotional, and spiritual part of both men and women, and to really know someone takes a life time to understand them and know them.

[jamaall89]

He's just tired. I've been too tired for sex. It happens to all of us at some point.

[Sully1310]

Having a friends with benefits in the first place is being too easy