Search Results: how do you tell a girl to lose weight

Lets say you grew up with the "fat girl" you went to high school with her and have known her for years, and never paid her any attention romantically, Or maybe even found her unattractive due to her body size.

If she were to lose the weight would you look at her in a new light or would you dismiss her due to her past?

I'm asking this because i'm currently undergoing a transformation, i'm absolutely determined to lose all of this weight, I've already lost over 30lbs this month alone.

I've been the Pretty - Fat girl my entire life. I have lots of guy friends and everyone tells me that I have an amazing personality and sense of humour, but i can't help but feel like my weight gets in the way of people seeing the real me. I feel like a pretty girl trapped in a fat girls body. I carry my weight well, and proportionately but I'm technically obese. I wear very on trend clothing and would never be caught dead in your typical plus size frumpy clothes your mom would wear. I'm also great with my hair and makeup. I'm not really insecure, like I said I know i'm a good looking girl, with very high standards, but my weight holds me back. I've had constant comments like "You could be a model if you were thin" etc.. and although I am 110% confident that facially I am above average looking I've always felt like most guys fail to notice me or dismiss me due to my size. The guys that I have been with seem to really like me, and declare their feelings but when I want to make things official they back off, and I can't help but feel like they're embarrassed of being with me or something.

So back to the question, hypothetically if someone you knew underwent a huge transformation from Fat to Thin and attractive, would you consider her to be a prospect, or is she always going to be the fat girl in your eyes?

I just want to change my life for the better and to look the way I feel.

Thanks guys!