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My Boyfriend/Dom does not want to get married. We've talked about this many times before. I don't want to get married either, so I'm not sure why he got so paranoid. He goes, "I'm only good for a good fuck and good food." I told him I didn't want to get engaged. He usually comes off as having high self-esteem; but today he was down in the dumps! Speaking of "dump" I thought he was going to break up with me; saying..."I taught you some stuff... blah blah, next relationship don't be so naive etc." He thinks I'm naive because I assumed he wanted something extremely serious (which neither of us do)! Why would he be so self-deprecating and act like he was wasting my time? The last time we had this conversation we were drunk and it was like 8 months ago! Is it possible he just forgot what I said to him? Does he feel bad that he isn't "giving enough" in our relationship? WTF is going on?

Been together for 13mo!!!

I got mad at boyfriend and told him it’s done between me and him. It’s been a day he didn’t text me back to apologize. We were planning to get engaged and get married and yesterday I told him our relationship is over and I’ll have to think about whether I want to spend the rest of my life with him or not. The things is I told what might lead to the end of our relationship and even after marriage the thing that will lead to divorce. I do not mind if he has friends who are girls, but I won’t tolerate some stuff. Yesterday he posted on his status normal video of other girls, and wrote their name including love you. Since he posted in his WhatsApp, he could’ve done it in a way I wouldn’t see it, but he didn’t mind. He told me that before he was bad. Before he fall in love with me, he use to date many girls at the same time.

So many think, their soulmate is their daily online chat boyfriend/girlfriend, whom they may never meet.
A soulmate is not a fantasy where many infatuated towards a woman/man they have never spoke to or held hands or dated or met in person. A soulmate is not a one sided relationship where you are desperately wanting the one that got away. Or the friend zone/one sided relationship that you think you are her prince when she only sees you a toad. Or one waiting for a married man to divorce and sweep her feet away... all these are disillusions, one put in their head.
Your soulmate, may I share is one who you have been through life with and you gave your all. You want them to be happy and they the same to you. You can look into their eyes and say I love you after you have hurt their feelings and say I'm sorry and mean it. Then wipe each others tears away. You respect each other, laugh together and grow together. You have share your most intimate and most difficult part. If you have never make love or broken apart and made up, how can you call each other soulmate? If you go 9 yards, she will return that. That's what I call knowing you have each others back - a soulmate.
I experienced all that, now I know what soulmate means.

My boyfriend's in special ops and always goes on these missions. This one has been the longest since we started dating - 4 months. I know that all these thoughts and doubts filling my head might all go away when he comes home in April. But these past few weeks I've just felt so disconnected. It's not the first mission since we started dating, so I don't know why I'm feeling like this all of a sudden. I mean, sure, I always miss him, but I've never had these negative thoughts all those other times he was gone. It could be because he apparently told my dad about going to business school at oxford or stanford or one of those other rich people schools in a year or so, but he hasn't talked to me about it yet. All he talks about with me is getting married after I graduate college. But I know that's not the only thing bothering me. It's also him going away all the time and always having to pick up where we leave off instead of just continuously going out - in person. On top of all that, I've become infatuated with someone I see every week, ever since I had this bicycle accident last week and he was really caring and protective. I can't stop thinking about this guy... My best friend says if I'm going to break up with my boyfriend it's better to do it over email if I have to, rather than wait till he comes back in April. But he just sent me a valentines gift, and then emailed me these sweet words, and... it just feels like bad timing. But if I don't break it off I feel like I'm going to cheat on him with this other guy. I already can't stop thinking about kissing him the next time we're alone... My boyfriend is a good guy. I know that all girls are going to say is that I'm a slut and should break up with him now, so I'm not even going to bother asking them. I need guys' opinions on this. My best friend (guy) says I should break up with my boyfriend now through email. What do you think I should do? Here are the options I could think of, whether moral or immoral: