A good handful of you liked my previous mytake, “Never Give Up Men!” Hopefully, many of you will find this mytake just as enlightening. A lot of guys on GAG think that you need to be rich, good looking, or have a hot bod to get girls. While having these things do help, I’d like for all of you to look at the second factor more in depth: being a hot guy is not as easy as you think.
Disclaimer: for you girls who are 9s or 10s, you’ll probably be able to relate to some these patterns.
Back in college, girls often told me I was around an 8 - 8.5. About a year or two later, I became a 9 - 9.5. I miss the days when I was an 8 - 8.5. Sounds counter intuitive eh?
1. You have to deal with A LOT more teases and manipulators
The logic behind it is that girls sometimes see you as a high value man automatically. The pattern over the past 5 years is predictable: I ask a girl out, she says: 1) I have a boyfriend, 2) I’m talking to someone, 3) I’m married, or 4) could be anyone of the previous 3, but doesn’t tell you so you’ll stick around. The WORST are the damn girls with boyfriends and/or ones who are talking to someone.
After I move on or no longer speak to them, assuming they’re within physical proximity (same class, gym, residential building, workplace, etc), those type of women become EXTREMELY CONTROLLING and WILL NOT leave you ALONE - they keep giving out false signals of interest in order to keep me as an option in case things don’t work out with their current man [this goes on for months, or even years]. They get even more aggressive if they see me talking to other girls that leads us to #2.
2. Jealousy plots
Some girls, usually the teasers and manipulators, go as far as trying to sabotage the other girls I’m talking to by becoming their “friend,” or in general like to collect information like a stalker would. On rare occasions, they even try bring the girl "down," or try to interrupt my conversations with the girl(s) I’m actually trying to speak with.
3. Unstable social life
The harsh truth boys: women are more aggressive to get attention when they’re in relationships. Why? They’re not going out to places as much as when they were single where they would be approached or gawked at. It’s not uncommon for me to lose male friends over time because their girlfriends or wives begin to show interest. Naturally, I would NEVER break the bro code, but the worst part is that I’m NOT doing anything to get their attention. On some occasions, I’ve even have to deal with bitter male bartenders at bars or restaurants I go to because the female bartenders like to gawk or talk about me. Also, your female friends may also begin to like you, but you don’t like them back!
1) Getting laid is easier, 2) the moms of girlfriends give you a plus, and 3) girls are a lot nicer to you, but as you know by now, there is a very high price to being…a hot guy.