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Search Results: in the time of the butterflies
Which is better: love or being "in love"?
Love = accepting, nurturing, calm, I choose to invest my feelings in you even though you aren't my first and this is not the first time In love = exciting, hardcore into someone, get the "butterflies", newness
Anonymous
(30-35) A guy kissed me but I didn't feel anything. Is that normal?
I have had a crush on him for months. He finally kissed me for the first time and in my mind I was like uhm, Okay whatever. There was no tingley feeling or butterflies in my stomach. Is that normal?
Anonymous
(30-35) What's your thoughts on a 19 year old in love with a 42 year old?
I'm not really sure if it's just like a little crush that's going to go away or what. But literally every time we talk I get butterflies and that just brings me back to middle school years and stuff. He's super sweet and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Dating stage to relationship stage?
I'm dating this guy, we get along really well and have a lot in common. We are good together and he makes me have those butterflies in my stomach lol. Cliche I know, but he does. Anyway we are dating and seeing where it's...
Anonymous
(36-45) A gift or can this lead somewhere?
Okay, so I just started re hanging with this guy, and everything is going good, I think my butterflies are coming back for him but im still not sure,. Anyways.., so today we were talking and he told me he had "to do last...
Anonymous
(30-35) He would rather talk to me than hook up with me?
This guy I know is attracted to me, I think still likes me (I know that he definitely used to really like me), and kind of shy, we hooked up a couple of times a long time ago. We were both at an event again (he had...
Anonymous
(30-35) I am an adult and I haven't dated for a while. I frequent a place maybe 2-3 times a month and I think I have a crush on a man who works there?
The guy who works there is totally not my type by any standards! I don't even find him attractive and may even be embarrassed if he was my boyfriend. The thing is, we made eye contact and I've been obsessed with him ever...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) We broke up after a year but it's still kind off the same?
My boyfriend and I had been together for 13 months. We broke up cause he didn't feel anythig for me anymore. He isn't in love with me any longer. He's also moving to another city for his study, although I've known about...
Alana-
Xper 6 Age: 28 Nonsensical mutterings
--Useless writing ahead. Void of any facts or advice or any other useful things. Proceed only if you are exceedingly bored-- It's ten to six in the afternoon. I got home at ten past two. I haven't seen anybody since. I...
BaileyisDarcy
Editor Age: 28 I want to pursue something with this guy, but I'm embarrassed about being public. Help?
So basically, there's a guy. (oh god how cliche can you get) I'm not good with emotions, reading them, or knowing what I'm feeling, but after assesing previous supposed crushes, I've come to the conclusion that this is...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, would you like these necklaces as Christmas gift from guy friend?
I have two good female friends and want to buy them something. I am kind of running out of time and also don't actually know what to get them. I know they both like accessories and stuff. what do you girls think of...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it wrong of me to want an open relationship?
I've been dating this guy for a few months. We still haven't had sex. I like him but I don't get butterflies like I have with some of the guys I've dated. He's what women would classify as a nice guy, which is great...
Anonymous
(36-45) What should I do?
Been talking to this guy online for a really long time and he's just perfect for me in every sense. Physically but most importantly personality wise we click so much. We don't talk that often because he has a job and...
Anonymous
(25-29) I like this guy but he is known to be a player. Should I date him?
So there's this guy, we will call him Ben, I like him but no one knows. He likes me and has liked me for a long time. I have always pushed my feelings aside and told myself they are not real because he is a total player....
Sheenazzzz
Xper 4 Age: 24 Fellas do you find this flattering? How would you feel?
After many, many years of having a crush on this guy in high school I have been running into him in my neighborhood lately. He found out through friends I used to crush on him and that he still gives me butterflies. He...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Torn between my ex and new girl?
I met my ex earlier this year after being heart broken by my previous ex. She showed me a different light in life and made me really happy I fell in love with her. It was her first real relationship so she wasn't in love...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do you develop feelings for someone?
This is a pretty general question, kind of like 'research'... So, when I was younger, I used to develop feelings for girls pretty randomly. They were mysterious, I would have 'butterflies' around girls I was attracted to,...
ResearcherGuy
Xper 5 Age: 32 We can't stop looking at each other?
I've read that attraction is all in the way someone looks at you and the frequency. We literally can't keep out eyes off each other... Every time we speak, we'll hold our gaze and then smile at eachother... she'll also...
Anonymous
(30-35) I thought we were meant to (if ever) question our sexuality younger? I'm very confused please help?
I'm 18 and I've only just started to question my sexuality. I've always been attracted to guys but as soon as I'm asked on a date I decline and I'm not exactly sure why. I don't stay interested in them for long. But the...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I get over my shyness around this guy?
I am not a shy person when it comes to knowing me. I am an outgoing person, and I am very open. I like this guy, and I do not know if he likes me back. We text each other a lot of times! I met Samir in Algebra2, and we...
Anonymous
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