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before I start I would like to point out that this question might sound racist and it kinda is.

till then a while back at my strip club nights I once got a lapdance from a stripper who was thick and had a humongous booty. she was in the same league as this...

and just like her she was white. I remember before the lapdance we were conversating and she brings up how people use to body shame her a lot growing up and how someone once called her a contradicting insult at telling her that she had a "white girl's ass." of course this means that was trying to say her ass was flat because after all big asses are more common in black women and latinas while white women get stereotype as having no ass. its gotten to the point that whenever a white woman does have a huge ass they will get called sellout, etc. which I find wrong because regardless of your race it will always be your genetics that decide what type of body you will have, regardless if your body is ideal to your race or not.

of course I disagree with the insult she got and I complemented her and she felt faltered and claimed most of her clients where black thanks to her physique. till then I always wondered, do women who have bodies that are/aren't considered ideal to their race feel flattered or insecure?

PS: I can write a book on why it might make them flattered or insecured

Would you date someone whose attractiveness was proportionately inverse to their insecurity? Meaning, a 7 out of 10 who was insecure, an 8 out of 10 who was very insecure, a 9 out of 10 who was highly insecure and self-depreciating, or a 10 out of 10 who was crazy, hyper, extremely insecure, self-loathing, and absolutely despised who they were as a person.

For the record, I don't mind insecurity at all. I'd take the 9/10 woman.